My Man originally about Duane Allman?

[sodascouts]

Has anyone ever heard that "My Man" was begun as a song about Duane Allman which later morphed into a song about Gram Parsons? I have read it in one source, but I can't confirm it. Perhaps I'm missing something?

[Ive always been a dreamer]

Very interesting Soda, but nope, I've never heard this before.

[GettheLeadonOut!!]

Hadn't heard about this but it makes sense as Bernie was buddies with Duane from his Florida days (as was Felder). Perhaps he originally wrote it for him but it evolved into a Gram tribute.

What makes me consider this is the opening lyrics about "rollin' so fast that your spinning your wheels", perhaps referring to Duane's fatal motorcycle crash.

Of course, the lyrical mention of "that old hickory wind" is definitely a reference to Gram ("Hickory Wind" is a choice cut from the Parsons-era Byrds LP Sweetheart of the Rodeo).

Wish we had a way to ask Bernie, but the guy lays pretty low these days.

[Freypower]

Some of the lyrics are about the dead artist's voice 'he'd sing for the people and people would cry'. I thought Duane Allman was a guitarist, whereas Parsons is revered for his voice (although it is too scratchy and occasionally out of tune for my taste, emotional though it can be to hear).

[sodascouts]

Here's a quote from Henley about it:

“‘My Man’ was written by Bernie about Duane Allman because he and Duane used to be friends and every time Duane would see him he’d say, ‘Hey, My Man.’ And then Gram died and it got written into the thing as well.” (John Tobler, Rock On, BBC Radio One, 1977)

Hmmm! Funny thing is, I've never read Bernie himself saying this. Too bad he lays so low, but I guess he figures if he's got nothing to promote, why bother?

[bernie's bender]

Here's a quote from Henley about it:

“‘My Man’ was written by Bernie about Duane Allman because he and Duane used to be friends and every time Duane would see him he’d say, ‘Hey, My Man.’ And then Gram died and it got written into the thing as well.” (John Tobler, Rock On, BBC Radio One, 1977)

Hmmm! Funny thing is, I've never read Bernie himself saying this. Too bad he lays so low, but I guess he figures if he's got nothing to promote, why bother?

hmm, that is pretty interesting.... Jackson Browne dedicated "these days" to Gregg A.... I know that Bernie knew Duane...

okay, well, I'll share what I think about Henley's comments...

Gram was drunk one night and said some brutal stuff about the Eagles (basically that they sucked)... there is NO doubt that Henley heard about it (it was in all the papers) and there is NO doubt that Glenn and Don were heavily influenced by Gram... so, it had to hurt pretty bad....

I'd bet that Don knows that the song is about Gram (since Bernie actually played in a couple of bands with Gram and never with Duane) but is intentionally clouding the waters to discourage any mention of Gram... (why would the Eagles do a song about a guy who disrespected the Eagles? rhetorical question)

That would be my thought... that Don is being petty. (it also fits his personality at times.)