I had a plan too about what I wanted to say, then he grabbed my hand and held it....Sparks flew, memory faded.....I couldn't have told you my own name. He's so sweet and kind of shy about it. My friend had the deer in the headlights thing going on, then said OH Sh!T, which made him laugh. He does this lean in to make direct eye contact- you feel like it's just him and you in the whole universe. You are about to embark on a glorious Joe Adventure!! Enjoy!!