Quote Originally Posted by sodascouts View Post
Just got done telling my friend's husband I wasn't comfortable with the "flirting" he was doing over Facebook chat. He wasn't sexually explicit - he was just saying he thought I was sexy, could I describe what I was wearing, etc, but I just kept thinking "What if my friend saw this? What would she think?" I shut him down after that but now he says I misunderstood and he was just being playful. Perhaps I overreacted... it's all so awkward!

It's so easy for him to say he was just being playful after you told him you weren't comfortable. The bad thing about texts and posts is that you just can't tell sometimes. The fact that he was doing it via chat where his wife couldn't see it is also suspect. I'd stand strong on this point if I were you.