I had disagreed about who got the last word. Period. It was dumb of me. It was unnecessary. It was none of my business. I shouldn't have said it. I apologized.
But I honestly don't see how my opinion about who got the last word can be construed as insulting or combative.
Also, you keep saying you're regretting the things you've said, and that you used insulting language, and yet you don't address me or apologize. I'm ok with that. If you think you don't owe me an apology, that's ok.
I don't hold it against you. I see you being reasonable a lot and you're honest when you feel you've crossed the line. I even thought we were ok there for a bit and I was glad for that.
There are only 2-3 people here that have, in my opinion, in my perception crossed the line in their accusations and insults. With no examples, no acknowledgement, no apologies.
(I've Always Been a Dreamer reminded me that perception is what counts.)
I've offered olive branches when I felt I was in the wrong, and even when I felt I wasn't. I've tried to explain when I've been misunderstood, I've apologized, I've acknowledged when I was out of line, I've asked for examples.
There's never been any attempt to debate, or to say that I may have point. It's been "Arlee Bad" from the get.
Anyway, that's neither here nor there anymore. It's not doing any good. Thanks again for at least acknowledging your part in it.