What's Happening In Your Life?

[lizzyplays]

Hopefully this is supporting your Concert Fund!

That's EXACTLY what all the 'extra' shifts money is going towards!! And, I have a couple of loans from friends lined up in the rare event that I don't have what I think I will need. :-)) I'm covering ALL the bases!!! This is my once in a lifetime dream concert. I want to have a great time with no worries. The timing was a little bad for me, considering that I just started this job 2 months ago and had been out of work for a few months prior, BUT, things are really working out! I opted for a positive attitude (something I wasn't using before) and suddenly things started falling into place. Imagine that?? ;-)

[lizzyplays]

I'm right there with you, Lizzy! Work is really taking its toll at the moment, but I know I'll be glad when I get my paycheck. (At least I hope I will! :lol:) Hang in there!

Thanks Troub, you too!! Yes, the paychecks make it all worthwhile! :thumbsup:

[zeldabjr]

Thanks Troub, you too!! Yes, the paychecks make it all worthwhile! :thumbsup:

Hi Lizzy, are your plans all set for Atlanta? are you going to be able to go to New Orleans too?

zelda

[zeldabjr]

[QUOTE=Windeagle;178433]Yikes! Just heard on the news there's an armed standoff going on not far from here. Several police officers have been injured in a drug raid gone bad.

It's not in my town but one I drive through on my way to work. And I have a friend who's an ER nurse at one of the hospitals involved. My thoughts go out to all the families affected by this.[/QUOTE

I can't imagine having a police officer as a friend or family member...so scary...glad you're safe...I'll say a prayer for the injured officers.

zelda

[lizzyplays]

Hi Lizzy, are your plans all set for Atlanta? are you going to be able to go to New Orleans too?

zelda

Not unless my friend either finds a dog sitter (i dont think she wants to) or relieves me from any guilt if I go alone and don't spend the rest of the weekend with her. But, I doubt that there is anything in the world that would take that guilt away, so although im still hoping to go, I'm prepared emotionally that I won't be able to. :-)

Yes, Atlanta is set since I'm staying with same said friend and I'm driving, so there's no transportation issues. :-)

[Topkat]

I have been having a stoke of BAD LUCK since last Thursday, when my phone & internet service shut down for no reason. Then I was unable to get a repair guy here until Mon. who was not able to fix the problem. Had another TW Cable guy here for 4 hours on Tues, again on Wed. Well they finally realized that the problem was with the computer jack on my laptop. I am able to use my little notebook, but now I have to go wireless. On top of this I had a tax appointment, which I had little time to prepare for on Wed. Yesterday I bought the wireless router, so I have to hook that up, but last night I find out that my company from LA is coming Today 13th , and not next Fri, 20th like they originally told me, so my house needs to get organized ASAP. I have my paperwork out & I'm just crazy here.
I just hope I can hook up the router today. The whole week has been a nightmare & today is Fri the 13th.LOL
:fear:

[zeldabjr]

Oh my...hopefully things will start to smooth out...It helps to vent doesn't it? I always think so... and listening to some great music always helps.

zelda

[sodascouts]

Let's hope your luck is good today!

My sister was born on Friday the 13th so in our family, it has always been considered a lucky day.

[Topkat]

Well I hooked up the wireless router. That only took over an hour of frustration on the phone, but it looks like everything is working. The taxes are done, just have to clean up the paperwork.

Now I just have to prepare for out of town company..Last minute notice! I told her, you will just have to deal with my house, because I am just so stressed out. This morning I was practically in tears & I do not get like that easily.

Maybe things will get back to normal. It's amazing how much being offline can disrupt your life!!! Never made it to the gym all week, but that's how it goes.
Thanks for letting me vent!

[Koala]

I'm back from Italy!

We had a great time!But not from the beginning! We were in Italy, unfortunately, not our luggage, which were still in Germany, that came the next day, very late in the afternoon, that was not nice!Especially since all the stores had already closed and we are not even buy toothpaste or other important things. So we traveled without luggage to the hotel long after midnight! Saturday morning, my sister and I have then searched for a shop to buy us the most important things(shower gel, etc.)!
The weather was fantastic we had in the high 80s°F, here at home we have not even the half! We have visit Verona it is a wonderful city with all their old monuments!Of course we visited the balcony of Juliet! Also we then drove around Lake Garda, beautiful landscape!

[TimothyBFan]

Welcome home, Koala!!! Sounds like once the luggage arrived, it was a great trip.

[Brooke]

Welcome back Koala. Sorry to hear about your luggage. Bummer!

I'd love to see Juliet's balcony! Did you get a picture of that?

[Koala]

Thanks!



I'd love to see Juliet's balcony! Did you get a picture of that?

I have not, but my sistier. I will post later a picture.

[Freypower]

I'm back from Italy!

We had a great time!But not from the beginning! We were in Italy, unfortunately, not our luggage, which were still in Germany, that came the next day, very late in the afternoon, that was not nice!Especially since all the stores had already closed and we are not even buy toothpaste or other important things. So we traveled without luggage to the hotel long after midnight! Saturday morning, my sister and I have then searched for a shop to buy us the most important things(shower gel, etc.)!
The weather was fantastic we had in the high 80s°F, here at home we have not even the half! We have visit Verona it is a wonderful city with all their old monuments!Of course we visited the balcony of Juliet! Also we then drove around Lake Garda, beautiful landscape!


Of course. I'm glad you did that.

[Koala]

FP, I knew that you write something like this!When I was at the balcony, I had to think of you!

http://i567.photobucket.com/albums/ss120/wall_e_2009/Gardasee%202012/Julia.jpg?t=1336020072

[Glennsallnighter]

I'm so glad you enjoyed your holiday Koala even if the start of it was not ideal. At least you got your luggage back.

The next bit is difficult to post but I feel I have to share it with my Border Friends.

Yesterday Frank called an emergency staff meeting. Of course we were all nervous about it. Before the full meeting about 10 of us were called into the office to receive some bad news privately. I was in that group. We were informed that one of our dearly loved and respected colleagues had died 'suddenly and tragically' that morning. Of course we all know what that means.

As a teaching staff we had to bring this message to our students and have had to keep teaching and managing classes as well as we can under the circumstances. Many of the students are traumatised to say the least and at this stage the stress is telling on the teachers. I've an unbelievable headache and have felt sick the last 24 hours. It is the worst week the school has ever experienced

Of course we are conscious too that our colleague was married with a family. And they are constantly in our thoughts.

I'm not going to say his name as we may have other Irish Borderers who are guests on the Border but I would ask you all to remember this man and his family in your prayers.

[TimothyBFan]

So sorry to hear this, GA!! Of course my thoughts are with his family. And you and the rest of your colleagues and students. Has to be a very emotional time for all of you.

[Koala]

GA, sorry to hear this sad news! You are all in my thoughts and prayers!:hug:

[Brooke]

Ga, I'm so sorry to hear this news and am sending positive thoughts and prayers for all affected.

Koala, the balcony picture is fantastic! Thanks for posting it!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

GA, sorry to hear of the tragedy. It's never easy to deal with and having to try and explain it to children makes it harder.

[Freypower]

FP, I knew that you write something like this!When I was at the balcony, I had to think of you!

http://i567.photobucket.com/albums/ss120/wall_e_2009/Gardasee%202012/Julia.jpg?t=1336020072

'You shouldn't come around here
Singing up at people like that'....

I don't even remember if I saw it myself on my own visit to Verona in 1973, but thank you for posting that, Koala.

Sympathy to you & your colleagues GA.

[EaglesKiwi]

Koala, welcome home and glad you had a good trip (apart from luggage issues, I've had the same thing so I understand!).

Lisa, you and your colleagues and the family will be in my prayers too. :hug:

[WalshFan88]

GA - So sorry to hear that. Very sad. :(

Koala - Welcome home!

[Windeagle]

'You shouldn't come around here
Singing up at people like that'....

I don't even remember if I saw it myself on my own visit to Verona in 1973, but thank you for posting that, Koala.


"Anyway, whatcha gonna do about it?..."

(That song is one of my favorites)

[Windeagle]

GA - so sorry to hear about your colleague. Sending you strength to help support your students and sending thoughts for the family.

[Glennsallnighter]

Thank you all so much everybody. :grouphug: it has been a most difficult 48 hours and with the removal to the church tonight and the funeral tomorrow morning it's not over yet. The school closed early today in order to allow the staff (many of us who have had to mask our own grief in front of the students and effectively 'hold the fort') our own prayer service and time to remember him. The prayer service was beautiful although emotional and I thought I did ok. Until the last piece of music, one which we in Ireland would call 'Will ye Go Lassie Go' known here on the Border as 'Wild Mountain Thyme'

Once again thanks to you all! The support here is only amazing!

[Topkat]

Oh, GA...I'm really sorry to hear that news. It must be so hard to keep it together at the school with all the teachers and kids... Prayers to the family and the school...Very sad to hear.

[GlennLover]

GA, I'm just reading this now, but I have some idea of what you are going through. You may remember that I have been off work the last 2 1/2 years due to my Menier's disease. Harold has been retired from the same employer(govenment of Canada) for two years. About 6 weeks ago we got a call from a good friend & former co-worker telling us that he had just come out of a 'private' meeting with his boss, during which he was informed that another of our friends & co-workers had died that morning of a brain aneuryrism. I had worked with her for 15 years and Harold for 27 years. She was only 55 & she left behind a 15 year old daughter. Her funeral, although beautiful, was heart wrenching.

[Troubadour]

Still thinking of you, Lis. I know how rough this week has been and you have been constantly in my thoughts. I am so desperately sad for your colleague and his family.

On a lighter note... I am officially on annual leave. My flight to America leaves at 9:05am tomorrow, so I am busy getting everything finalised - printing off documents and making sure I haven't forgotten to pack anything! I can't wait to see Jess and everyone again, and I am looking forward to a couple of weeks of nice weather. It's been so dull, windy and wet here lately! I will post from Jess's place when I get the chance and, for those of you on FB, I'll try to update there when I land in Detroit for my connecting flight. We have several things to look forward to, including a luau on May 8th (my birthday!) and, of course, Joe Walsh on the 17th! Very exciting.

[whitcap]

I just got home from the emergency room. I woke up in the middle of the night in incredible pain. When it didn't go away I went to the ER. Turns out I have kidney stones :ack: I'm just glad it didn't starting hurting during the concert yesterday.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Troub, have a great trip and a great visit! Check in often!

WC, I'm glad too that it didn't 'hit' before the concert, but still! Ouch. Hope you get better soon!

[Windeagle]

WC, glad it held off until after the show. Take care and get some rest! I hope you feel better soon.

[zeldabjr]

I'm back from Italy!

We had a great time!But not from the beginning! We were in Italy, unfortunately, not our luggage, which were still in Germany, that came the next day, very late in the afternoon, that was not nice!Especially since all the stores had already closed and we are not even buy toothpaste or other important things. So we traveled without luggage to the hotel long after midnight! Saturday morning, my sister and I have then searched for a shop to buy us the most important things(shower gel, etc.)!
The weather was fantastic we had in the high 80s°F, here at home we have not even the half! We have visit Verona it is a wonderful city with all their old monuments!Of course we visited the balcony of Juliet! Also we then drove around Lake Garda, beautiful landscape!

Hi Koala, Glad you are home safe and that you had a great trip!
zelda

[zeldabjr]

FP, I knew that you write something like this!When I was at the balcony, I had to think of you!

http://i567.photobucket.com/albums/ss120/wall_e_2009/Gardasee%202012/Julia.jpg?t=1336020072

Wow, I got the chills when I saw this pic!
zelda

[zeldabjr]

I'm so glad you enjoyed your holiday Koala even if the start of it was not ideal. At least you got your luggage back.

The next bit is difficult to post but I feel I have to share it with my Border Friends.

Yesterday Frank called an emergency staff meeting. Of course we were all nervous about it. Before the full meeting about 10 of us were called into the office to receive some bad news privately. I was in that group. We were informed that one of our dearly loved and respected colleagues had died 'suddenly and tragically' that morning. Of course we all know what that means.

As a teaching staff we had to bring this message to our students and have had to keep teaching and managing classes as well as we can under the circumstances. Many of the students are traumatised to say the least and at this stage the stress is telling on the teachers. I've an unbelievable headache and have felt sick the last 24 hours. It is the worst week the school has ever experienced

Of course we are conscious too that our colleague was married with a family. And they are constantly in our thoughts.

I'm not going to say his name as we may have other Irish Borderers who are guests on the Border but I would ask you all to remember this man and his family in your prayers.

Oh GA, I can't imagine what you are going through...I'm sure your colleague's spouse and family have all the prayers possible from your border friends.Prayers to you and everyone at your school touched by this too.
zelda

[Lisa]

Firstly, to Glennsallnighter, I am very sad to read about the terrible misfortune to the school colleague and his family and the community they served. My sympathy to everyone affected by the loss.

Next, to whitcap-- kidney stones-at least you now know the cause of the trouble !

Koala--Was fuer eine gute Reise nach Italien.! Ein sehr schoenes Bild.
(trans = What kind of a good travel to Italy. A very beautiful picture).

(I'm one of the other Lisas on the board--there must be hundreds of them--but it gets confusing when ao many people have the same names)!

[GlennLover]

Whitcap, I hope you pass the stone soon & are relieved of your pain.

Koala, glad you enjoyed your trip & are back home safe & sound.

[Koala]

Troub, have a save and nice trip!
WC,hope you get better soon!
GA, again I'm so sorry about this! You are all in my prayers!

Thanks again for The warm welcome back posts!
Lisa, :thumbsup:

[sodascouts]

Koala - glad you had such a good time!

Lou - safe travels!

Whit - oh my gosh! You seemed fine. I'm so happy it didn't happen while we were rocking out with the Eagles!

Lisa - I know I said this to you earlier but I want to repeat how very sorry I am about your colleague and the family and friends are in my prayers. I hope "will ye go lassie go" gave you some comfort, too.

[GlennLover]

Bon Voyage, Troub! Enjoy your trip! :partytime::partytime:

[whitcap]

Thanks everyone :hug: I feel a lot better today :)



Whit - oh my gosh! You seemed fine. I'm so happy it didn't happen while we were rocking out with the Eagles!

My back hurt a little Saturday but I thought it was from standing so long. Plus I was distracted. Who can think about pain while rocking with the Eagles!

[GlennLover]

Thanks everyone :hug: I feel a lot better today :)


Glad to hear that, wc!

[Brooke]

Troub, wishing you a safe and happy trip!

Wc, ouch! I'm so glad you were able to get through the concert ok! It would have been terrible to have missed it. Glad you are feeling better and it goes away soon.

[Molly]

Thank you all so much everybody. :grouphug: it has been a most difficult 48 hours and with the removal to the church tonight and the funeral tomorrow morning it's not over yet. The school closed early today in order to allow the staff (many of us who have had to mask our own grief in front of the students and effectively 'hold the fort') our own prayer service and time to remember him. The prayer service was beautiful although emotional and I thought I did ok. Until the last piece of music, one which we in Ireland would call 'Will ye Go Lassie Go' known here on the Border as 'Wild Mountain Thyme'

Once again thanks to you all! The support here is only amazing!

GA, I'm so sorry to hear this. This is one of the toughest things to have to go thru. I lost my brother in a similar manner 10 years ago, so I know how painful it is.

This weekend we attended the funeral of the son of a couple who are 2 of our oldest and closest friends. Steve, my husband, went to high school with Dean and they were best friends (Dean actually introduced me to Steve) and his wife, Brenda and I have been friends since the 4th grade.
Their son and our sons were obviously lifelong friends. Sadly, Eric took his life last week. We don't know why. Maybe in time, Dean and Brenda will want to share more with us (if they even know) and we'll certainly be sympathetic and empathetic ears if they choose to do that.

So painful to watch our friends go thru this. Brenda spoke at the service (I don't know how she did it). She begged us to remember Eric with the beautiful smile that was usually on his face and not to remember the way his life ended.

[Glennsallnighter]

Thank you so much to you all for your sympathies. Everybodys comments and shared experiences have meant so much to me. A lot has happened in two weeks at work and I've been left with more questions than answers. It was a Public Holiday today but I have spent most of the day feeling upset, worried and resentful about everything that has happened. I'm dreading going back tomorrow, for the first time ever.

Molly, my deepest sympathy to your friends on the loss of their dear son. I hope they find some answer to why this awful event happened and that they can draw some small comfort in the fact that he is at peace now. I know how trite these words probably sound at this time, but please be assured that I will pray for Eric and all the others who have asked for prayers.

WC, glad you are OK and that the cursed Kidney Stone did NOT interrupt your enjoyment of our boys gig!

Troub! I know I wished you a Bon Voyage last night on text. I hope you arrived safely and that you are already having fun. I'm sure Troub won't mind me saying that she texted me just before her plane left and as its het birthday tomorrow they changed her seat and gave her two seats by the window all by herself!

Way To Go Lou!!

[GlennLover]

Molly, so sorry to hear about Eris's death. There seems to be an ever increasing number of young people taking their own lives these days without it being apparent that they are so troubled. It's so sad. My prayers are with his family.

[zeldabjr]

Molly, so sorry to hear about Eris's death. There seems to be an ever increasing number of young people taking their own lives these days without it being apparent that they are so troubled. It's so sad. My prayers are with his family.

add my thoughts and prayers to you and your friends for this tragic loss...

Zelda

[WalshFan88]

Whitcap - Oh no! Glad you got in and found out what it was. Glad it didn't happen at the show! Take care!

Troub - Have a safe and fun trip!!!

Molly - So sorry to hear that.

[Koala]

Molly, my deepest sympathy to you all, especially to your friends!

[TimothyBFan]

I cannot imagine losing a child especially in such a tragic way. My thoughts are with Eric's family.

Well we signed papers this weekend accepting a bid on my Mom's house. It took us forever to get it cleaned out (we were so unsure on what to do with so much of the stuff) and on the market, but it was only listed for 2 weeks and had a lot of activity regarding it. Hopefully this will all work out. It will be good to know it's a family with 3 young children who will soon be calling it home.

[Brooke]

We closed on my Mom's house last week. Everything went so smoothly it was almost scary. She put a sign out on a tree and three days later had accepted an offer! We got everything sorted and moved and sold and she is now happily at home in her apartment. I'm so relieved that's over.

[Molly]

I cannot imagine losing a child especially in such a tragic way. My thoughts are with Eric's family.

Well we signed papers this weekend accepting a bid on my Mom's house. It took us forever to get it cleaned out (we were so unsure on what to do with so much of the stuff) and on the market, but it was only listed for 2 weeks and had a lot of activity regarding it. Hopefully this will all work out. It will be good to know it's a family with 3 young children who will soon be calling it home.

Awesome to think about a young family making memories in your Mom's house. Some day, if my mother in law ever decides to let go of her place, we'll be heading down the same road you're on. Seriously, anyone want to buy a house that looks like it was frozen in time around 1974?

Thanks for all the kind words regarding Eric and our friends. My family is still reeling, so I can't even imagine how they are going on day to day. Not sure I could go back to that house after what happened. I'm thinking about planning an outing with our old group of friends. Maybe a Brewers game in a few weeks. Brenda said she was afraid no one would want to be around them right now and I certainly don't want to let them go on feeling that way. Having been thru something similar, I guess I have a little bit of insight into what they are going thru.

GA, you'll probably never have answers. It's been 10 years since my brother died, and there's still so much I don't understand. I've resigned myself to the fact that it's between him and God. But, I'll spend the rest of my life wondering if I could have done or said something to make a difference.

[Brooke]

Molly, what a terrible tragedy. I'm so sorry.

[zeldabjr]

We closed on my Mom's house last week. Everything went so smoothly it was almost scary. She put a sign out on a tree and three days later had accepted an offer! We got everything sorted and moved and sold and she is now happily at home in her apartment. I'm so relieved that's over.

I remember when my mom sold her house...actually my second cousin had always wanted it and bought it...it was so hard to leave the house I grew up in...but she was so happy in her little apartment...it was like the weight of the house was off her shoulders. Hope that is how your mom feels and really enjoys life now.
Zelda

[Brooke]

I remember when my mom sold her house...actually my second cousin had always wanted it and bought it...it was so hard to leave the house I grew up in...but she was so happy in her little apartment...it was like the weight of the house was off her shoulders. Hope that is how your mom feels and really enjoys life now.
Zelda

Thanks zelda! Yeah, I think that's how she feels. There's just not so much to take care of.

[zeldabjr]

why is it everything breaks at the same time?...I think I broke my camera at the concert last week(too many TBS pics I guess), now I killed my shredder, and the carpetcleaning machine broke...:help::mad:

[AzEaglesFan]

I've heard that bad things happen in threes. SO from now on you should have nothing but good luck. Let's hope anyway. :pray:

[sodascouts]

Please play for my childhood friend's father Will. Not only was he diagnosed with liver cancer, they told him he has days to live! He is my parent's age, not relatively young like Willie's friend, but his family would still like more time with him. He actually isn't just my friend's father; he's a family friend that my family has known since I was six years old. I remember him playing with me when I was a child. I feel so bad for him and my friend's family!

[Henley Honey]

Terrible news Soda. They're in my prayers.

[zeldabjr]

Oh Soda that is awful...has he been sick or is this sudden?...you have my prayers and thoughts.
zelda

[sodascouts]

It's sudden. Thanks for the prayers!

[Lisa]

I'm so sorry. Terrible news.

[Koala]

Oh no, what for sad news. They're in my thoughts and prayers.

[Glennsallnighter]

Mine too Soda :hug:

[WalshFan88]

Sorry to hear that, Soda.

[TimothyBFan]

Oh, Nancy, I am so sorry to hear this!! His family is in my thoughts also.

Have I said lately (pretty much daily) how much I HATE cancer!?!?!?

[Windeagle]

Sending thoughts along as well.

[Brooke]

Soda, that's very sad news. I will keep yours and his family in my thoughts and prayers.

[Glennsallnighter]

And then some....
Today we got a text from our childrens school that a fourth class (age 9-10) girl has just lost her long battle with leukaemia and passed away earlier today. May she Rest In Peace.

[Brooke]

Ga, my sympathies.

We keep having bad news here. Let's hope there is a turn around and we get good news for a while.

[Windeagle]

I'm sorry to hear it, GA. Hopefully they can take comfort that the pain is gone now.

Do proms count as good news? I can contribute that. Both my girls went to prom on Saturday and had a blast.

[zeldabjr]

And then some....
Today we got a text from our childrens school that a fourth class (age 9-10) girl has just lost her long battle with leukaemia and passed away earlier today. May she Rest In Peace.

GA...so sorry to hear that news...so much progress has been made, but it's still so difficult to hear when a child dies...hopefully someday soon no child will die of this disease...

[Brooke]

Do proms count as good news? I can contribute that. Both my girls went to prom on Saturday and had a blast.

I think so We! Especially if they made it home in good time and there were no problems! Around here the schools all have sponsored, all night parties. It's a lock in so no one leaves and all activities are planned. Parents chaperon. They have a great time.

[TimothyBFan]

GA, my sympathies to this family and the young ladies classmates. So hard for them to comprehend this, I'm sure.

[lizzyplays]

So sorry to hear that GA. My sympathies, thoughts and prayers go to the family and friends. As TBF said, the poor classmates will struggle to comprehend. I remember when I was in the 2nd grade, one of my friends/classmates was killed in a wreck over the weekend. The entire school had a weird 'air' about it for a long time. Such a somber mood of course and nothing made sense. We just couldn't grasp that Charles wouldn't be back in class, even at age 7 or 8.

[Glennsallnighter]

GA...so sorry to hear that news...so much progress has been made, but it's still so difficult to hear when a child dies...hopefully someday soon no child will die of this disease...

What makes it worse is that recently the child of a teacher (and good friend) was also diagnosed with this. I had only been telling him how well she had been doing. Now this. I need to keep this news away from him as long as I can.

[Molly]

Sorry to hear of your bad news, soda and GA. Sending thoughts and prayers.

[Koala]

I'm sorry to hear this sad sad News, GA.

[Topkat]

Tues night I had the good fortune to get tickets to see Adam Lambert at a private show introducing his new album. His voice was spot on perfect & he's got looks to die for. He played 9 or 10 songs off the new album with his full band & even though it was a very small audience, he sang like he was playing for thousands. I know this guy isn't everyone's taste, but his voice is just so good, it's no wonder that Queen invites him to sing with them. He has a full 7 octive range, which is very rare.

I took a lot of pictures, but I am not a great photographer. If you want to see them, they are on my Facebook page,( Ellensue Stein). I am not sure how to load pictures on this sight, as I am electronically challanged! LOL
I really had a spectacular time at this show as it was a very small venue & I was able to get really close.

[Brooke]

Glad you enjoyed yourself, Tk. I think AL has a fantastic voice. He's just a bit "over the top" for me!

[Glennsallnighter]

Glad you had fun TK!

We had Chris's First Holy Communion last Saturday but tonight is my first chance to hit Photobucket. So here's a few pics from the special day.....

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t236/Irisheaglesfan/Chris%20First%20Communion/IMG_6626.jpg

In the church before the Mass
http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t236/Irisheaglesfan/Chris%20First%20Communion/IMG_6637.jpg

With Laura (who not only sang in the school choir at his Mass but also the later one)
http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t236/Irisheaglesfan/Chris%20First%20Communion/IMG_6643.jpg

Family pic with the cake

http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t236/Irisheaglesfan/Chris%20First%20Communion/IMG_6725.jpg

[Topkat]

Beautiful photos GA. Chris is such a cutie! Congratulations!!

[Windeagle]

Love the photos, GA. Congratulations to Chris.

[Molly]

Wonderful pictures! Congratulations, Chris!

[zeldabjr]

Oh GA your family is absolutely too beautiful...you are so lucky!

[Koala]

Beautiful photos GA, congrats to Chris.

[Brooke]

Ga, what wonderful photos! Chris is adorable and Laura is lovely! Thanks for sharing with us! What a happy occasion!

[prayfordaylight]

Congrats on Communion. What a good looking family!

[WalshFan88]

GA - Nice pics! Congrats!

TK - Glad you enjoyed it.

[AzEaglesFan]

GA, what a beautiful family. I love Chris' suit.

[lizzyplays]

Wondeful pictures, GA!! Beautiful family indeed. Congrats on the communion!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

GA, you do have a beautiful family! Congrats on the communion!

[Glennsallnighter]

Thank you so much to everyone for the lovely comments. Its times like this when you feel as a parent maybe you are getting something right somewhere! And believe me, that is not very often. But we did have a great day!

[Brooke]

I'm on vacation this week! :yay: I know most people travel during their vacations, but we aren't big on traveling, too much work to be done! :sad: Maybe someday we'll get to, but not right now. I do have a long bucket list that will happen one day! :pray:

Yesterday one of our great nieces graduated from high school. She's a lovely girl and was named salutatorian! Besides being an all state basketball player and a state finalist in track, she's really smart! Love her!

This week I am doing the spring cleaning. Washing windows, straightening up the basement storage room, etc. Today I am taking my Mom to a doctor's appointment and we are having lunch out. I also have to take my jeep in for a check. So, I'll be around, but busy, busy, busy!

[zeldabjr]

Hi Brooke, I always loved those stay at home vacations...used to say I was going to veranda beach...just being away from work was the best thing right?... doesn't matter how much "work" you do while on vacation as long as you're not at work...enjoy...

[WalshFan88]

Brooke - enjoy your vacation!

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This last week was a bad week. I've been having horrible insomnia but also we had to have one of the dogs put down due to aggression and attacking (for those who know my dogs, it was Fender.) It was sad as he was one of the most loving dogs but could fly off the handle and go completely into attack mode over anything and was super fearful and aggressive with strangers and tried to attack my dad so they took him in and had him put down. Just too much of a risk and he was getting worse. It started out in late puppyhood but he was a full grown dog and he was getting more and more aggressive and also with the other dogs. We still have Gibson who is a great dog and super friendly and loving. He is super depressed though as Fender was his buddy.

After moving my vacation plans around it looks like I'll be back in Nashville this summer. I do love that place. I'm actually starting the journey in Tunica, MS and stay there for a few days, and then to Memphis, TN for a few days, and end the trip in Nashville, TN. I'm looking forward to it. I've still got some money saved up and I'm probably going to get some pedals as there is a great store there. I don't think I'll be able to get a guitar though but that's ok.

And I guess that's about it. Healthwise I'm doing ok - my stomach seems to be healing with the medicine and seems to be getting better. Still have to watch the spicy stuff or it will burn pretty badly. Ulcers take a while to heal.

[TimothyBFan]

GA---congrats to Chris. Your children are beautiful and WOW, does Laura ever look just like her Mom!!!

Oh, Austin, I'm so sad for you!! I know how hard it is to put a dog down for that very reason. I had to do it several years back, we tried everything and nothing worked. When he nipped at a child, that was it. Couldn't take the chance. Hugs to you and to Gibson!

Have fun in Nashville!! My daughter has made 2 trips down there in the last 2 months. Loves it there also. A couple weeks ago while there, she was stalking Jack White. :lol: Like mother, like daughter. I was so proud! ;)

I myself am looking forward to a few days off here also. No big plans, just tacking a couple days onto the long weekend this coming weekend. Larry has to work Friday so I plan on going as far as the back deck with my kindle and a cold drink. Kinda hoping I'll get a call from our realtor telling me we will be closing on my Mom's house one of those days so we can close that chapter.

[Brooke]

WF, I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. That is very sad. Thoughts go out to you and your family.

TBF, enjoy your extra couple days too. I planned my week off this week so it would extend with that extra day next week too!

Now, windows, here I come!

[sodascouts]

Enjoy your vacations, ladies!

Austin - tragic about your dog. I'm sorry. I don't know if I'll be in Memphis when you come by because I'll be away much of June. However, if I am, give me a holler and we can meet up!

[Topkat]

Austin; I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. That's so sad. I really feel for you.
Also, when you are in Nashville, don't forget to visit the Gibson Guitar showroom & factory. They have a venue called the Gibson Showcase (I think that's what it's called) where they have concerts & the guitar store & factory are right there next to it. I had been there a few years ago & I'm sure you will appreciate how they show the making of the guitars step by step by hand. They also have a huge selection in the store. They were just beautiful....Quite impressive & I'm sure a guitar player like you will just love it!

[Windeagle]

I'm so sorry about your dog, Austin. We thought for sure we'd have to do that with my mother-in-law's boxer when she passed away. The dog was so protective of her that he got really aggressive with anyone who wasn't immediate family. None of us could take him and the shelter wouldn't either. Just when we ran out of options, we got lucky and found a boxer rescue house that knew how to handle him.

Glad to hear your health is better and you're looking forward to vacation though. That Gibson factory TK mentioned looks awesome. I want to go!

[WalshFan88]

Thanks everyone for the support. It was a tough but right decision.

Unfortunately it seems this week won't be much better. Our other boxer, Gibson, is at the vet for the 2nd time in 2 days. He hasn't ate for almost 4 days, vomits everything he eats, and won't get up off of the floor. He's at the vet right now and they are doing XRays to see if he has a blockage and if he does, he'll go into surgery. If it's not a blockage, I'd assume they'll give him IV's and keep him until he will eat. I've wondered if it was depression from losing Fender, but I wouldn't think that would cause vomiting like that. He looks so thin. If we lose him I'll lose it.

Soda - I will PM you when it gets closer to the time. I believe it's the 2nd or 3rd week in June that I will be in town.

TK - I will definitely check out that place while I'm there!!! Sounds very cool and will be right up my alley!

[GlennLover]

Austin, so sad to hear about, Fender. Our pets are members of our families. I'll say a prayer for Gibson. Glad to hear that your health has improved.

Brooke, hope you have some time to relax on your vacation.

Lisa, I meant to tell you before how handsome Chris looks at his 1st Communion! Congrats to him. Laura is so pretty, just like her mother!

Willie, have fun on your long weekend! Hope the house closes soon. It's awful when thinhs are up in the air & you are just waiting. I'm sure it will be a big relief when it does close.

[WalshFan88]

Just an update on Gibson - he had surgery today to remove a mechanical blockage (foreign body). He had ate a bunch of stuffing out of a dog bed and it blocked his small intestine. Infection was starting to set in and so it's a good thing we took him this morning. Last night they thought it was just an infection/bug. He will likely be coming home on Saturday. He's on IV's of course both fluids, antibiotics, and steroids and will likely be not coming home until Saturday, perhaps late Friday night at the earliest. I'm just glad they figured it out and fixed the problem. Now we just have to keep him confined until he completely heals. We leave for vacation week after next so I really hope he's healthy enough to stay at the boarding kennel by then. We might go and visit him tomorrow but we don't want to stir him up so we will let the vets decide if we should depending on how he is tomorrow afternoon. We can't have him pulling out his IVs or getting rambunctious. He has a tendency to be that way!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Austin, glad to hear the problem has been solved and he's on the mend!

[zeldabjr]

Just an update on Gibson - he had surgery today to remove a mechanical blockage (foreign body). He had ate a bunch of stuffing out of a dog bed and it blocked his small intestine. Infection was starting to set in and so it's a good thing we took him this morning. Last night they thought it was just an infection/bug. He will likely be coming home on Saturday. He's on IV's of course both fluids, antibiotics, and steroids and will likely be not coming home until Saturday, perhaps late Friday night at the earliest. I'm just glad they figured it out and fixed the problem. Now we just have to keep him confined until he completely heals. We leave for vacation week after next so I really hope he's healthy enough to stay at the boarding kennel by then. We might go and visit him tomorrow but we don't want to stir him up so we will let the vets decide if we should depending on how he is tomorrow afternoon. We can't have him pulling out his IVs or getting rambunctious. He has a tendency to be that way!
Oh Austin, I feel terrible about your dogs...I know how I feel about mine...hopefully Gibson will heal quickly without any problems...
zelda

[Windeagle]

Wow, Austin, I'm so glad you caught it in time. Best wishes to Gibson for a speedy and complete recovery.

[Koala]

Poor Gibson, hope he recovers quickly and completely!

[AzEaglesFan]

Sorry to hear about your dog troubles. It is so hard to have to a dog down but once they become aggressive, they usually don't improve. I'm surprised he would attack your Dad since your Dad was someone that Fender saw every day.
Glad that Gibson is getting better.

[TimothyBFan]

Glad Gibson is going to be ok. Poor guy!!!! Hope he cooperates and heals quickly.

[Brooke]

WF, so sorry about your doggie troubles. Poor Gibson, get well soon!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Look what I get to fix this weekend. These ditches were level roadway a week ago. This happened back in 2008 and it was a lot of hard, backbreaking work to fix (yes, I did it myself). It worked fine until Monday. Now, it's worse than it was back then, and we are to get more storms tonight. Grrrr.

http://i1200.photobucket.com/albums/bb328/vernakrose/misc/twoditches.jpg

[zeldabjr]

I feel so bad about that mess you have...wish I was coming down sooner I would help you...

[VAisForEagleLovers]

It might take a while, but I'll get it done. Did I mention it's to be in the 90's here?

[zeldabjr]

It might take a while, but I'll get it done. Did I mention it's to be in the 90's here?
ugh...you better take it slow while you're working...make sure to drink a lot of water...

[WalshFan88]

VA - That sounds like no fun at all. Take care and stay cool outside. I myself don't do very well in hot weather - I get super sick.

[Glennsallnighter]

Don't work too hard VA, take it in easy stages.

Austin, I'm sorry to hear about poor Fender, but I'm glad Gibson's problem has been sorted and that he is on the mend.

[Koala]

Don't work to much, make enough breaks, VA.

[EaglesKiwi]

Austin, very happy to hear your medicine is starting to work, and that you have a holiday planned. So sorry to hear about Fender, though. And I hope Gibson recovers soon. :hug:

[Topkat]

Austin, Glad they figured out what was wrong with Gibson & hope he's doing a lot better!! Must be hard after losing Fender to have to go through this with your other dog. Sending good wishes to you both.

[WalshFan88]

Just an update on Gibson - he's recovering from Surgery really well and is almost back to %100 Gibson.

The vet removed a TON of foreign bodies from his stomach, including a guitar pick! :hilarious: Also a ton of pillow stuffing and a squeaky from a toy. No wonder nothing would pass! :shock:

[EaglesKiwi]

Oh, poor baby Gibson! No wonder he wasn't a happy boy...

I know Boxers have a reputation for, um, looniness :nahnah:, but this is excessive!

[Glennsallnighter]

Glad Gibson is feeling better Austin.

[Troubadour]

GA, I love your photos! Looks like it was a lovely day. Chris is so grown up!

Austin, I'm so sorry about Fender. What a heartbreaking decision to make. I'm so glad that Gibson is back to his normal self... Tell him to stick to his own food from now on! ;)

[Glennsallnighter]

Thanks Troub! He is certainly getting v big!!

[timfan]

I am heartbroken.... We just found out our beloved, sweet and loving cat Midori is suffering from kidney failure. Dad and I are both devastated but have vowed to work to make whatever time she has left with us comfortable and enjoyable for our darling Midori.

[Brooke]

tf, I'm so sorry about Midori. I hope you can make her comfortable.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

TF, what rotten news. So sorry. Spend as much time with Midori as you can while you can.

[Glennsallnighter]

Awwww TF! I am so sorry for having to hear this news. I'm sure you can make Midori as pain free and comfortable as you can for her remaining time with you.

[Koala]

TF, I'm so sorry To hear that sad news about Midori.

[TimothyBFan]

TF, I also am very, very sorry to hear the bad news. I hope her quality of life is good. Best of luck.

[WalshFan88]

TF - I'm very sorry to hear that. :( I hope he has a good quality of life left and that you are doing ok. Take care. We had a cat a few years ago with the same problem and he was older and developed it and we tried IV's and everything but at the end he passed on his own one night while everyone was sleeping.

[lizzyplays]

Oh geez, I have missed so much. Sorry to hear about Midori, TF. I know that you will make her feel loved and comfortable in her remaining time here. And my dear Austin... I can't believe that I missed this tragic news about Fender. I am SO, so sorry hon. I think you made the right decision, just sorry you even had to deal with such a thing. I know this must have been terribly hard on you and probably still is. I'm glad that they were able to get Gibson sorted out though!!

:grouphug:

[timfan]

Thanks for the support everyone. We are taking Midori over to the vet's tonight to get some meds, to pick up some kidney specific food for her and so the vet can give her a shot of fluids. We have decided against the more invaisive procedure of having her admitted to hospital for an IV treatment and then admistering Iv fluids at home.. we want to her die peacefully not with her last memories being IV's and stress.

[sodascouts]

How awful to lose your precious cat. I'm so sorry, TF. I know her last days will be happy with all the love she is receiving.

[zeldabjr]

Thanks for the support everyone. We are taking Midori over to the vet's tonight to get some meds, to pick up some kidney specific food for her and so the vet can give her a shot of fluids. We have decided against the more invaisive procedure of having her admitted to hospital for an IV treatment and then admistering Iv fluids at home.. we want to her die peacefully not with her last memories being IV's and stress.

Oh TF I know what you must be going through...My sister's cat was in kidney failure and she did the home IV twice a day( I was elected to do it since I'm an RN) He lived about a year in relative comfort, but got so he'd go hide whenever I came in the house...I had to talk my sis into stopping everything, and it was the best thing...You're doing the right thing in my view...because you love her...

[Windeagle]

My "HFO Kid" - the daughter born just before the taping of the HFO video - graduated from high school last night. Where does the time go?!

[Glennsallnighter]

I have no idea WE! But congratulations to her!

[zeldabjr]

My "HFO Kid" - the daughter born just before the taping of the HFO video - graduated from high school last night. Where does the time go?!

wow congratulations!

[lizzyplays]

My "HFO Kid" - the daughter born just before the taping of the HFO video - graduated from high school last night. Where does the time go?!

Congrats to her!!!

[Koala]

congratulations to your doughter!

[sodascouts]

My "HFO Kid" - the daughter born just before the taping of the HFO video - graduated from high school last night. Where does the time go?!

"It's her world now" eh?

Congrats to her!

[EaglesKiwi]

Congratulations to your daughter, WE! Your post made me stop and count up (and I even double-checked on my fingers!) how long it has been since HFO - I just couldn't believe it was 18 years. WOW.

[TimothyBFan]

Congratulations to your daughter, WE. And can I say how much I love the fact that you called her your "HFO kid"? ;-)

[StephUK]

Some of you have noticed that I wasn't here on the board for a couple of weeks recently, and have been kind enough to ask about my illness. So here's the details.

I’d had a bad pain in my neck & head for about 5 days so I went to my GP; he thought I’d probably pulled a muscle in my neck and gave me some strong pain killers. When I tried to get out of bed 2 days later I couldn’t stand up or walk without falling over to my left side, and the pain in my head & neck was terrible. I called an ambulance & they took me to A & E, where I had lots of tests and was then admitted to the hospital stroke unit. A CT scan showed that I’d had a stroke, and an MR scan 2 days later showed the cause of the stroke to be a split artery in my neck. Blood had clotted in the broken areas of the artery & then the clots had been pushed out into my brain. The affected area was mainly at the back of my brain, which controls balance – which was why I couldn’t walk.

I was in the stroke unit for 13 days, and had daily physiotherapy which taught me to walk again, initially with a frame and then with a stick.

Now I’m back at home, the physiotherapist is coming once a week and has given me exercises to do every day. I still have to use a stick to walk, I’ve lost some strength in my legs and I have sensory loss on my right side. I also still have some pain in my neck & head, but nothing like as bad as it was before. The split artery has to heal itself, so I guess I will get some pain for quite a while. I’ll have another MR scan in 5 months time to check that the artery is healing OK.

At the moment I get tired very quickly even after doing easy tasks like getting myself something to eat or taking a bath. This should improve over the next few weeks.

I’m not allowed to drive for 30 days after the stroke (by law) and after that I can only drive again once my GP has given the OK – so it might be a while longer than the 30 days. So basically I’m pretty much housebound for the time being. :-(
I'm sure I'll be listening to lots of Eagles music and watching Farewell 1 in the next few weeks! It'll help to keep my spirits up.

Of course, what I really need is a BIG HUG from my darling Will. :nod:

[EagleLady]

I'm so sorry to hear that Steph. Hope You get to feeling better

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Steph, I've been wondering how you were doing and I'm so very glad to hear you're doing better. I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

[zeldabjr]

Some of you have noticed that I wasn't here on the board for a couple of weeks recently, and have been kind enough to ask about my illness. So here's the details.

I’d had a bad pain in my neck & head for about 5 days so I went to my GP; he thought I’d probably pulled a muscle in my neck and gave me some strong pain killers. When I tried to get out of bed 2 days later I couldn’t stand up or walk without falling over to my left side, and the pain in my head & neck was terrible. I called an ambulance & they took me to A & E, where I had lots of tests and was then admitted to the hospital stroke unit. A CT scan showed that I’d had a stroke, and an MR scan 2 days later showed the cause of the stroke to be a split artery in my neck. Blood had clotted in the broken areas of the artery & then the clots had been pushed out into my brain. The affected area was mainly at the back of my brain, which controls balance – which was why I couldn’t walk.

I was in the stroke unit for 13 days, and had daily physiotherapy which taught me to walk again, initially with a frame and then with a stick.

Now I’m back at home, the physiotherapist is coming once a week and has given me exercises to do every day. I still have to use a stick to walk, I’ve lost some strength in my legs and I have sensory loss on my right side. I also still have some pain in my neck & head, but nothing like as bad as it was before. The split artery has to heal itself, so I guess I will get some pain for quite a while. I’ll have another MR scan in 5 months time to check that the artery is healing OK.

At the moment I get tired very quickly even after doing easy tasks like getting myself something to eat or taking a bath. This should improve over the next few weeks.

I’m not allowed to drive for 30 days after the stroke (by law) and after that I can only drive again once my GP has given the OK – so it might be a while longer than the 30 days. So basically I’m pretty much housebound for the time being. :-(
I'm sure I'll be listening to lots of Eagles music and watching Farewell 1 in the next few weeks! It'll help to keep my spirits up.

Of course, what I really need is a BIG HUG from my darling Will. :nod:

oh Steph...so sorry to hear about your illness...glad to hear you are on the mend..sounds very scary...wish I could get you your hug from Will but I know one from your friends here will help too:grouphug:....and I know listening to and watching our handsome men will be really good medicine...Take care...Zelda

[Topkat]

Steph, I am so sorry to hear about your illness. That must have been so scary. I do hope you are feeling better & that everything will be okay. Do they have any idea why this happened? Please know that I am thinking about you & pray for a full recovery! Please take good care of yourself & know that we are all thinking of you & wishing you well.

[Brooke]

Steph, I'm so sorry to hear about this and how scary! I'm so glad you are doing ok and are on the mend. It seems I'm hearing about things like this more every day and it is so upsetting. Please take care! :hug:

[Koala]

Steph, I'm so sorry to hear this scary news! I'm so glad you are feeling better!

[timfan]

Oh Steph, how scary! I'm very sorry to hear of your medical issues but glad your starting to feel better. Take care of yourself and visit us when you feel up to it. :)

[Freypower]

Steph, I echo everyone's thoughts. Please take care of yourself.

[Windeagle]

Just back after a few busy days away. Thanks all for the graduation wishes!

Steph - Yikes! How frightening! I'm so glad you're doing better and wish you lots of luck for a full recovery.

[Glennsallnighter]

Stephanie! I'm so sorry you haven't been well. Now you take care of yourself, rest up and do what the Doctor ordered! I had no idea when I was snapping pics of Will for you in LA that you were actually in hospital. Hope that action sent a get well vibe! I'm sure if he knew he too would wish his biggest fan a full and speedy recovery along with the rest of us!

[TimothyBFan]

Oh my, Steph!!!! I'm so glad you're now on the mend. How scary it must of all been. Please take care and check in when you can to let us know how you're doing.

[prayfordaylight]

I echo everyone's sentiments when I say get better soon Steph! Please take care of yourself and know we're thinking of you.

[WalshFan88]

Steph - Get well soon! Take care and best wishes.

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Just a quick road update. I will be home on Thursday (a day earlier). It's been a rollercoaster of a vacation. High highs and low lows.... It's been stressful and great at the same time.

I did end up getting a '56 Fender Tweed Deluxe amplifier - the same amp both Joe and Felder used to record most if not all of the Hotel California album - and definitely the title track!!!!! It was a dream amp of mine and lets just say I will be paying on it a LOOOOONG time! I also got a couple pedals. That was the "high part". I'll write more about the low part when I get home this weekend.

[Molly]

Steph, thank goodness you got the right diagnosis and the necessary treatment.

Here's positive thoughts and prayers sent your way for a continued successful recovery! Keep up the good work and keep your spirits up! It sounds like the worst is behind you!

[EaglesKiwi]

Steph, you're in my thoughts & prayers too. Take care.

[StephUK]

Thank you all very much for your kind words and thoughts.

I think I'm getting a little better each day. It's frustrating, but makes me realise how easy it is to take everything for granted. I just long to be independant again.
I am thankful that it wasn't worse though.

Regards
Steph

[BramwenR]

That is so hard for you Steph, I am so sorry to hear that. guess we think of a stroke more as happening to elderly folk but it can hit anyone without warning, like you.

Take this time to rest up and get your health back.

Thoughts from Australia..

Jacqui

[BramwenR]

As for me, I have a lot of bad days since losing my twin sister to cancer 13 months ago and my Dad also to cancer 17 months before her.

Some days I struggle with the insensibility of it all and I have found solace once again in music and writing. So basically, my life has been turned upside down since I am a single parent to a 17 year old son and trying to cope with my losses on top of all of that.

It is inhuman to watch someone suffer like that and has divided my family in a very unpleasant way. Some days I am so sad I can't even think straight. And yes, I have the help with that I need.

Fortunately, I haven't lost my ability to laugh.

Watching ICTYW is what led me here and has given me such a boost. Sometimes fate steps in and does that :)

[zeldabjr]

As for me, I have a lot of bad days since losing my twin sister to cancer 13 months ago and my Dad also to cancer 17 months before her.

Some days I struggle with the insensibility of it all and I have found solace once again in music and writing. So basically, my life has been turned upside down since I am a single parent to a 17 year old son and trying to cope with my losses on top of all of that.

It is inhuman to watch someone suffer like that and has divided my family in a very unpleasant way. Some days I am so sad I can't even think straight. And yes, I have the help with that I need.

Fortunately, I haven't lost my ability to laugh.

Watching ICTYW is what led me here and has given me such a boost. Sometimes fate steps in and does that :)

so sorry to hear about your recent losses...you sure have had more than your share...glad to be here for you and hope the friends made here will help...and of course the boys can't hurt!!

[Glennsallnighter]

Steph, I'm so glad that you are recovering, and hope that your full independence comes very soon. Take it Easy and accept what help is offered to you. We are all thinking of you and praying that you will have a full recovery.

Bramwen I am sorry that you have had such a rough time over the last few years. I'm gald that you find relief in your writing and music. I have always found music a comfort and solace whenever I am going through hard times in my personal life. To be honest from the time I was a child I just loved music so much. I could not imagine a life where music was not an important part of it.

[BramwenR]

Thank you Brenda and GA. Even after all this time I can't believe it's actually happened. And over the last few months I relived it all through my neighbour opposite who lost his wife to cancer two months ago. It's just awful how you become conditioned to the signs.

So music puts me in a place that is untouchable. I lose myself in it. My Dad actually introduced us to music, we had an upright Yamaha he used to make us four girls (my brother was too little) stand around and sing! I think he had hopes we would end up a singing quartet or something!!

And through that I developed a love of classical music, got piano lessons and ended up doing recitals at the local hall when I was 9/10, getting to Grade 6 or something at boarding school over the next two years ;) I have a lot of my late sister's music, we had very similar tastes, in classical also. The Greatest Hits Eagles album was hers :) The other night I had on a mixture of stuff, two of hers, one of mine..she was/is (because her spirit is still here) very spiritual and lots of her music is like that (Sarah McLachlan etc). :)

[Koala]

Bramwen, I'm so sorry to hear all this sad news. I also have a twin sister and I can not Imagine a life without her!

Steph, glad that you are feeling better!

[SallyGee]

Steph, So glad to hear you are doing better. What a terrible thing to have to go through.
Bramwen, So sorry to hear of your losses. They say we are only given what we can handle. Therefore you must be a strong person.
Both of you, please know that there are people out here who care and send prayers and good wishes. Remember, one day at a time.

[Brooke]

Bram, I'm also sorry to hear of your losses. I also lost my Dad to cancer nearly three years ago now. Doesn't seem possible he's been gone that long and I miss him so much. All we can do is like SG said, take one day at a time.

[BramwenR]

Thanks Koala, Sally and Brooke. You know, I always wondered how people go on from day to day after such losses and the truth is, you function because you have to..because other people rely on you and you have to be strong..when you crumple and no-one is there to pick you up (in my case), that makes it so much harder. It's an emptiness like no other, a pain like no other.

Brooke, I am so sorry for your loss also..it will be three years for my Dad come December..when I lost him I couldn't see how I was going to cope to the first year (we had no warning with him, three days notice) and then my sister was diagnosed terminal nine months later..so I had to put my grief on hold for him in favour of my sister. Over nine months I watched her wither away slowly in incredible pain and now I grieve for them both.

It's a living hell but worse for them how they suffered so..they had to leave but it doesn't mean we don't miss them and become a little selfish for still wanting them here.

I appreciate all your kind thoughts and support, I have had so much of both from my internet friends and that is so nice to know :grouphug:

[Brooke]

I will be on another staycation next week. Wish I were going somewhere exotic! Mostly I'll be at home doing stuff, but we are going Wednesday to Kansas City to see Def Leppard and Poison. We'll stay the night and probably visit hubby's sister on Thursday. Looking forward to that!

[WalshFan88]

Brooke - Have fun!!!

[BramwenR]

I have another free weekend :) My son is over at a mate's so I have the house to myself :)

Last night I scanned and uploaded a whole lot of old family photos to my HD and then to Facebook...it was so great seeing all those oldies! There are also a lot of my son's baby photos as well, his first day at school, all of those..so I dunno, maybe I'll do some more tonight while it's still quiet..or maybe I'll have a glass of white left over from last weekend's bottle when he was away again..or maybe I'll just sit here and play one of my hidden object games from BigFish games :-) It's one of my most relaxing things to do when I don't want to think..and it stretches the grey matter somewhat ;)...

As compared to grey hairs (think most of us have earned them with teenagers, LOL) Ha!

[Glennsallnighter]

Enjoy your time to yourself Bramwen! And you deserve that glass of white too!

Have fun on the staycation too Brooke!

I'm quiet for the next while as I'm back marking exams! It's tedious and e wry year I say it's my last. But I have an extra 70 compared to other years this year. I'm not complaining. This could mean that if Glenn:heart: DOES tour any dates in the UK I can go!

[Troubadour]

I am only just catching up with this thread but I am so, so glad that you are doing okay, Steph... what a scary thing to have happen! I will be thinking of you. I'm not Will, but here's a big hug! :hug:

I have a nasty throat infection at the moment. I think I will visit the doctor tomorrow. It's been four days and it's still extremely painful. At least I have a couple of days off work to dose up and rest. I met Nancy (Soda) and her parents a week or so ago in London for dinner and a theatre trip. We saw Henry V at Shakespeare's Globe Theatre, which was wonderful. It was so lovely to see her again and to have a good catch-up!

[Freypower]

I am only just catching up with this thread but I am so, so glad that you are doing okay, Steph... what a scary thing to have happen! I will be thinking of you. I'm not Will, but here's a big hug! :hug:

I have a nasty throat infection at the moment. I think I will visit the doctor tomorrow. It's been four days and it's still extremely painful. At least I have a couple of days off work to dose up and rest. I met Nancy (Soda) and her parents a week or so ago in London for dinner and a theatre trip. We saw Henry V at Shakespeare's Globe Theatre, which was wonderful. It was so lovely to see her again and to have a good catch-up!

I am so glad you went to the Globe. Isn't it great? If I go again, I will do the Globe again because it is essential for me now.

[WalshFan88]

Troub - Get well soon!

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In other news here I survived my root canal with the help of "Analog Man". I kid you not I had my iPod full up on volume (or just about) and blaring so I couldn't hear the drills. Also he hit something once (other than the tooth) that made me jump in pain but I was surprised I had no pain once I got home. The tooth was already dead and therefore was abscessed and had no feeling anyway. I go back this week for the filling to close it up!

I scored 2nd row seats for the Journey/Loverboy/Pat Benatar show and am excited for that!

And in 6 days I'll be seeing Joe in Naperville!!! I cannot wait! :yay:

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Can't quite believe I have to go to the office tomorrow. For the entire day. :ack:

[zeldabjr]

Can't quite believe I have to go to the office tomorrow. For the entire day. :ack:

Oh no...nasty...when was the last time you had to do that?

[Koala]

Troub, Hope you feel better soon!

[Glennsallnighter]

I am so glad you went to the Globe. Isn't it great? If I go again, I will do the Globe again because it is essential for me now.

Imagine if you got to the Globe and to see another Glenn:heart: concert on the same trip FP!

Troub! Hope you are feeling a lot better very soon.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Oh no...nasty...when was the last time you had to do that?

The day I left for Atlanta to go see our boys!

[zeldabjr]

The day I left for Atlanta to go see our boys!

ohhh...I remember...almost two months ago...having such PEW still...

[Glennsallnighter]

Awwww PEW is so nasty. I didn't have too much PGW this time. I'm putting it down to how unexpectedly I managed to make the LA gig. Followed by the anticipation of Soda's visit to Dublin, and now all the activty surrounding 'After Hours' over the water. I guess I'm hanging on for some new dates.

I'm meant to be marking exams and I CANNOT concentrate at all!

[TimothyBFan]

Get well soon, Lou!! You poor thing--that's just to long to be down.

Brooke & Austin--- Very cool---have fun at your concerts!!!

[Troubadour]

Thanks everyone. I'm marginally better today... Hopefully I'll be back to full fitness by Wednesday or Thursday. These throat infections are no joke!

FP, I have been to The Globe before - once to see The Tempest, and once on a backstage tour with my university class - but I think this was my favourite experience so far. Henry V is one of my favourite plays and Jamie Parker (of History Boys fame) was excellent in the lead role. I hope you do get to come back and visit The Globe again!

[Freypower]

Thanks everyone. I'm marginally better today... Hopefully I'll be back to full fitness by Wednesday or Thursday. These throat infections are no joke!

FP, I have been to The Globe before - once to see The Tempest, and once on a backstage tour with my university class - but I think this was my favourite experience so far. Henry V is one of my favourite plays and Jamie Parker (of History Boys fame) was excellent in the lead role. I hope you do get to come back and visit The Globe again!

OK, I didn't know you had been before. Now isn't this weird because I've already seen Jamie Parker as Henry V, when he was still Prince Hal, when I saw Henry IV I there in 2010, along with Roger Allam as Falstaff. We were watching Simon Schama's Shakespeare last night & Roger Allam recited some Falstaff highlights - 'banish plump Jack & banish all the world'.

[Brooke]

Well, my staycation is nearly over! Just chilling today. Had a great time seeing Def Leppard and Poison Wednesday night in KC. See the Def Leppard thread.

Enjoying some produce from the garden, if I can manage to get to it before the animals do! My garden is choking do to the heat and lack of rain. We have tried to water it some, but it's just not the same. I thought we would have nice sweet corn, but the coons, squirrels, and deer have decided to eat it before it is really ready. We have picked a few ears early in order to get to eat some ourselves! The next batch probably won't have ears since it is so dry. I've also had a few tomatoes. Yum!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Finally got internet service back. What a day. Feel bad for all the businesses that rely on reservations and credit card validation and especially the ones that have their phone service through the cable as well. It's Comcastic. I won't complain too much, still have a few neighbors without power in this heat.

[Brooke]

VA, I was watching the weather channel last night and saw that about all the power outages and hoped none of our friends here were affected. No ac in that heat would be awful.

[SallyGee]

There was a water main break near us on Friday. We are on water restriction. They lost about 50% of our water supply according to the news. No watering lawns, no washing cars, etc. That's not so bad. We have rain barrels we can use to water our garden. But, we can't drink the tap water without boiling it first. We have pots of water on the stove, but when it cools down, you can see all this sediment in the bottom. Gross! We are using bottled water to drink, brush our teeth, cook with. One article says don't use the dishwasher because it uses too much water. Another says use the dishwasher because the high temp may kill some organisms. If you wash the dishes with the tap water, you have to add bleach. Then how do you rinse the bleach off? This isn't supposed to be fixed until the Fourth of July! Sorry, don't mean to complain. At least we have power. Feel so sorry for people who have lost it. Thanks for listening!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

VA, I was watching the weather channel last night and saw that about all the power outages and hoped none of our friends here were affected. No ac in that heat would be awful.

The power went out here for about thirty seconds, so no problems. Some good friends and neighbors have been without power since Friday night and the estimate to get it back is tomorrow night.

[zeldabjr]

There was a water main break near us on Friday. We are on water restriction. They lost about 50% of our water supply according to the news. No watering lawns, no washing cars, etc. That's not so bad. We have rain barrels we can use to water our garden. But, we can't drink the tap water without boiling it first. We have pots of water on the stove, but when it cools down, you can see all this sediment in the bottom. Gross! We are using bottled water to drink, brush our teeth, cook with. One article says don't use the dishwasher because it uses too much water. Another says use the dishwasher because the high temp may kill some organisms. If you wash the dishes with the tap water, you have to add bleach. Then how do you rinse the bleach off? This isn't supposed to be fixed until the Fourth of July! Sorry, don't mean to complain. At least we have power. Feel so sorry for people who have lost it. Thanks for listening!

Oh SG..what a pain in the you know what right? sounds like you're managing as well as you can...isn't it amazing how we take clean water at our fingertips for granted until something screws up and man you realize how lucky we are most of the time...As our favorite brown eyed bass player says in one of his songs..."everybody needs to p...and moan" right? if it's good enough for Timothy it's ok with me:laugh::laugh::laugh:...vent any time you need to...that's what friends are for right? take care

[zeldabjr]

The power went out here for about thirty seconds, so no problems. Some good friends and neighbors have been without power since Friday night and the estimate to get it back is tomorrow night.

awful...is everyone out buying generators?...thank God you're ok

[Glennsallnighter]

Oh I hope everybody without power and water has it restored as soon as possible. You never realise how much you need these services until you lose them! And conflicting messages from those who are supposed to be 'in the know' don't help either!

[BramwenR]

Not much happening in my part of the world, I had a quiet weekend because my son has been at a mate's for three days, three of the ones he used to hang with all the time until they all moved out of the area so he visits different ones most weekends. I haven't driven for about eight years but planning on renewing my licence within the next couple of months and getting a car later in the year (so my son can get his Ls)..so it's a real pain with buses and trains where I live, the public transport is absolutely woeful, takes hours sometimes to get anywhere or twice as long because of the bus service here and connections the other end..and don't talk to me about when I do the grocery shopping, I've spent a fortune on cab fares :scowl:

What a pain about your energy problems, being without fresh water is a bit scary, we had a problem years ago in Sydney with Giardia and everybody was getting sick; heavy downpours apparently and treatment plants couldn't keep up, something like that I think.

Hope you guys get it sorted out real soon!

[SallyGee]

Yay! We don't have to boil water anymore!:partytime:We had to let all the faucets run for about 5 minutes to get all the junk out. Now the water is clear. Still on restriction, but that's OK. Boy, I will never take water for granted again!

[zeldabjr]

Yay! We don't have to boil water anymore!:partytime:We had to let all the faucets run for about 5 minutes to get all the junk out. Now the water is clear. Still on restriction, but that's OK. Boy, I will never take water for granted again!

Awesome!!

[Brooke]

Yay! We don't have to boil water anymore!:partytime:We had to let all the faucets run for about 5 minutes to get all the junk out. Now the water is clear. Still on restriction, but that's OK. Boy, I will never take water for granted again!

Lol! We need to pass that around. I work for the water dept here and it's so hard to get people to understand that clean, safe water is not Free anymore!

Off to a bar-be-cue in a couple hours, the hottest time of day! I think I will go in the house and stay there!

Hope everyone has a

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Be safe everyone!

[Glennsallnighter]

Lol! We need to pass that around. I work for the water dept here and it's so hard to get people to understand that clean, safe water is not Free anymore!


It is here!!!

[Brooke]

It is here!!!

Really? You don't have to pay for water in your home?

[Glennsallnighter]

Nope! We don't. Water is completely free here at least domestically. I dunno about businesses. Successive governments have tried to bring in water charges here but it won't wash with the public!

Might be something to do with the amount of RAIN we get here.....?

[Brooke]

That's amazing Ga! There are so many government regulations on water and the cost is so high to maintain that safety that good ole H20 can be quite high here. Many small town water plants have even gone out of business because they can't afford to keep their plants up to regulations.

[TimothyBFan]

It is here!!!

First healthcare and now free water!!! That's it!!! I'm outta here and moving to Europe!!!!!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

My water is free! I have a well, so as long as it doesn't go dry I'm good to go.

[Troubadour]

First healthcare and now free water!!! That's it!!! I'm outta here and moving to Europe!!!!!

Yay, come and join us socialists! ;)

[Freypower]

We took Rosalind to the University of Wollongong (south of Sydney) for a legal ethics workshop because she's interested in studying law. It goes for 2 days.... I'll be interested to hear her thoughts when we go & pick her up this afternoon.

[Koala]

Hope Rosalind enjoys her workshop!

[EaglesKiwi]

How old is Rosalind now, FP? I thought she was about the same age as Hamish (14), and he wouldn't have a CLUE about what he wanted to do, let alone volunteering to do extra study for it...

[Glennsallnighter]

Good for Rosalind FP! I hope she enjoyed the workshop. She is great to be able to do it. Is she in holidays from school at the moment? I'd love to hear what she thought about it.
Laura is 11 now. She doesn't know what she wants to do after school yet but seems to be leaning in the healthcare area for the moment anyway - Doctor, Nurse or Paramedic is what she talks about. She is doing 1st Aid at the moment - most of courses to qualify as these have an entrance interview as well as an academic requirement, so the First Aid will give her experience in caring (and also something to talk about) if she does follow that route.

Although I think she did mention something about free concerts as well...........

[Freypower]

She's 13 (14 in October), in Year 8 (second year High School). She enjoyed yesterday, except that they showed an episode of LA Law involving a serial killer which she found disturbing because she doesn't watch that sort of TV. We told her it was just dramatic licence & that most court cases even those involving violent crime are much more matter of fact & procedural.

[timfan]

My Dad was taken to hospital early Sunday morning; He had a small heart attack and some ulcer problems along with a few other minor medical issues. Sunday was rough but he is now realitively stable. It looks like he'll be in the hospital til at least the beginning of next week as they determine exactly how bad the damage to his heart is. Because of this my Border time will be limited in the next few weeks but I'll check in when I can :)

[Troubadour]

Oh no! How scary. I'm glad he is stable now and hope he continues to recover well. Warmest thoughts and prayers coming your way, Kath! :hug:

[sodascouts]

Oh no! Best wishes and prayers for your father's recovery.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Oh no! I was just thinking about you earlier this evening. Many thoughts and prayers with you and your family...

[SallyGee]

timfan, Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

[zeldabjr]

Oh Timfan...so sorry to hear about your father...hope he remains stable...and will pray for his long term recovery...Make sure you take care of yourself during this time too!!

[Freypower]

Kath, I do hope you pass on my best wishes to your Dad. It was a great pleasure to meet him last year.

[Ive always been a dreamer]

Kath - I am very sorry to hear about your Dad. I will keep you both in my thoughts and hope he makes a full and speedy recovery.

[Koala]

Timfan, Oh no! My best wishes to your Dad!

[Brooke]

timfan, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm sending my best wishes to you and him and praying for a speedy full recovery.

[EaglesKiwi]

She's 13 (14 in October), in Year 8 (second year High School). She enjoyed yesterday, except that they showed an episode of LA Law involving a serial killer which she found disturbing because she doesn't watch that sort of TV. We told her it was just dramatic licence & that most court cases even those involving violent crime are much more matter of fact & procedural.
Obviously girls mature faster than boys! :hilarious: Glad she enjoyed herself.

[EaglesKiwi]

My best wishes to you and your Dad too, timfan. My father had a small heart attack a couple of years ago - fortunately he lives in Australia and got great medical care.

[WalshFan88]

Timfan - So sorry to hear that... I hope he gets well soon! Very scary.

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I'm doing well here other than I had to have a tooth extracted and now go to an oral surgeon tomorrow to see about an implant surgery. :( It was one of my front teeth too and it looks god awful but at least the pain is gone now that the tooth is gone!

[TimothyBFan]

Kath--I'm thinking of both of you and hope for the best. Your father was quite a sweetheart when I met him a couple years ago.

Austin-- OUCH!!!! Glad it's feeling better now.

[Brooke]

Ouch, Austin! Good luck with that!

[WalshFan88]

Thanks!

I'm hoping they'll just sedate me with an IV like they do for wisdom teeth and just put me out so I won't be bothered by it. I've had enough dentistry/mouth work while awake lately (root canal) and I'm not going to stay awake even with novocaine while they drill into my jawbone. :hilarious:

Tomorrow I will hopefully find out when the surgery will be and what the plan is.

[Glennsallnighter]

FP! I'm glad Rosalind enjoyed her camp.I'm sure its given her some things to think about when she does have to make a decision about her future.

TF! I hope your Dad is feeling a lot better by now and that he makes a full recovery. Lots of prayers and positive vibes heading his way.

And Austin, hope your mouth is feeling better after your extraction. I hope the implant plan suits you. I would like to be knocked out for that procedure as well.

EK, glad your Dad is fully recovered too!

[timfan]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone; I appreciate the support.

My Dad needs to have heart bypass surgery.. no further details yet. Not the news we were hoping for but I'm trying to stay positive.

[zeldabjr]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone; I appreciate the support.

My Dad needs to have heart bypass surgery.. no further details yet. Not the news we were hoping for but I'm trying to stay positive.

Sorry to hear that TF...but my dad had quadruple bypass surgery and did very well...will pray that surgery goes well and he has a speedy recovery...it's amazing how well people do with this surgery!

[Brooke]

I know! It seems like I hear about someone having it every day anymore and people do very well. Good luck tf!

[Freypower]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone; I appreciate the support.

My Dad needs to have heart bypass surgery.. no further details yet. Not the news we were hoping for but I'm trying to stay positive.

I hope it goes well for him.

[sodascouts]

Yes, stay positive. These things often go well!

[Glennsallnighter]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone; I appreciate the support.

My Dad needs to have heart bypass surgery.. no further details yet. Not the news we were hoping for but I'm trying to stay positive.


I have heard very positive things about bypass surgery too Tf. Nobody looks forward to any medical procedures but I'm sure your Dad will do fine and will feel the benefits for years to come. Takd care of yourself too TF :hug:

[timfan]

I'm taking today off from the hospital ( my bro is there); relaxing, puttering around the house as well as spending some time with Midori.

An ironic moment yesterday, on the way to the hospital what starts playing on my ipod but.... Heart of the Matter

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMJR85btvtk

[WalshFan88]

Timfan - Good luck to your dad with his surgery.

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Well the oral surgeon had bad news - I'm going to lose another tooth. I have very little bone in my upper jaw in the front and they would/will have to do bone grafting to put one in. Also he thinks because of this lack of bone structure that I will likely lose more teeth in the future.

He is going to talk with my dentist and some other specialist to see what is the best route to take surgery wise, future wise, cosmetic wise, and financial wise. They will call us next week with a game plan. I have a feeling they will pull the one other dead tooth and do bone grafting and an implant.

[Freypower]

Austin, I hope they come up with something to help you.

My uncle has died of septicaemia. Unfortunately he lived in a country town & was not seen for several days, then was found & flown by helicopter to Newcastle where he died. I know no more than that. He was 65. His health had not been good for years.

So both my father's brothers are now gone & I will have to go to the crematorium where we farewelled my father at the end of 1987. I have not been there since then. Other funerals I have attended (for my father's family members) have been church services.

The only close relatives I have now apart from my mother & my husband's relatives in England are on my mother's side; her sisters & my cousins, and we don't talk to them.

[WalshFan88]

So sorry to hear about your uncle FP.

[Glennsallnighter]

My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the death of your Uncle FP. May he rest in peace. I'm sure the next while will be be hard on you emotionally but know that you have everybody's support on the Border. We will be be thinking of you all. :hug:

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Austin, sorry to hear about the bone loss. I had a bone graft done and it wasn't too bad. Not as bad as it sounded, anyway.

FP, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and even more so that he was one of the few close relatives you had. I'll be thinking about you...

[WalshFan88]

Austin, sorry to hear about the bone loss. I had a bone graft done and it wasn't too bad. Not as bad as it sounded, anyway.

Good to hear that it isn't as bad as it sounds. Just those two words about put me into orbit alone! :D

[timfan]

Austin Hope all goes well with teeth issues not fun I know!

Julie I an deeply saddened to read of your uncle's passing. I know what it's like to not have much family which makes every loss hurt all the more.

[Brooke]

Austin, good luck with your dental issues...doesn't sound fun, but ya gotta do what ya gotta do!

Julie, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

[Koala]

FP, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, my deepest sympathy.

Austin good luck at The dentist.

[Troubadour]

I'm so sorry to hear about your uncle, Julie. Thinking of you and your family.

Hope everything goes well for you, Austin, and for your dad, Kath. Sending warm thoughts your way!

[sodascouts]

Julie, I too am sorry to hear of your loss.

Austin, I hope all goes well for you. Are false teeth a possibility?

[SallyGee]

Julie, So sorry for your loss. Try to remember the good times you shared with your uncle. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Austin, Good luck with the dental work. I hope it goes well for you.

[SallyGee]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone; I appreciate the support.

My Dad needs to have heart bypass surgery.. no further details yet. Not the news we were hoping for but I'm trying to stay positive.

Kath,I will keep your dad and your family in my prayers. Staying positive is a great thing.

[zeldabjr]

Austin, I hope they come up with something to help you.

My uncle has died of septicaemia. Unfortunately he lived in a country town & was not seen for several days, then was found & flown by helicopter to Newcastle where he died. I know no more than that. He was 65. His health had not been good for years.

So both my father's brothers are now gone & I will have to go to the crematorium where we farewelled my father at the end of 1987. I have not been there since then. Other funerals I have attended (for my father's family members) have been church services.

The only close relatives I have now apart from my mother & my husband's relatives in England are on my mother's side; her sisters & my cousins, and we don't talk to them.

FP...so sorry to hear about your uncle...you are in my prayers

[zeldabjr]

Timfan - Good luck to your dad with his surgery.

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Well the oral surgeon had bad news - I'm going to lose another tooth. I have very little bone in my upper jaw in the front and they would/will have to do bone grafting to put one in. Also he thinks because of this lack of bone structure that I will likely lose more teeth in the future.

He is going to talk with my dentist and some other specialist to see what is the best route to take surgery wise, future wise, cosmetic wise, and financial wise. They will call us next week with a game plan. I have a feeling they will pull the one other dead tooth and do bone grafting and an implant.

Sorry to hear about the bad news Austin...will keep you in my thoughts...sounds like you have a lot ahead of you...