What's Happening In Your Life?

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Oh HB thanks so much for asking.
Have not heard anything other then the doctors were extremely happy with the test.
He has neonatal hemochromotosis which effects blood sugar levels due to too much iron in his blood and liver. Eventually ,he will out grow it but for now,his parents have to stick him to check his blood sugar twice a day.he was 9 months old yesterda
Just wanted you to know how much we all appreciate your prayers.

[Houston Baby]

That is good news! Sorry that he still has to have his blood sugar tested but thrilled to know he will outgrow this. 9 months old! Where has the time gone? I bet he has his own little personality now & everyone wrapped around his little finger! Especially you!! :wink:

[Outlawman13]

I'm so sorry Marcell that Lucas has that, but so glad that it's only temporary!!!! Sending prayers your way!!!! I hope Lucas gets better. Awww 9 months yesterday!!! I would love to see some pictures of that little tyke.

[Glennsallnighter]

I'm glad too that Lucas will outgrow this condition too! I'm glad he is happy and progressing just like any other little tykie.

[sad-cafe]

I get to have a colonoscopy Tuesday

Prep starts tomorrow

[Tiffanny Twisted]

first ..sc chin up and it will be over soon.prayers to you.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

gan-olm13-hb thank you from the bottome of my heart on Luke and his familys behalf. I truly believe in the power of prayer and my border buddies were a big part of the prayer chain after he was born at 3 lbs 15 oz.
Yes he has stolen my heart. I promised to spoil him with love and time before material things. JAHH and I are his godparents along with another couple . We all get along and love tha baby to pieces.
His momma lost one before him and he was a "suprise" afer she was told it would be hard for her to get pregnant So he is a true gift from god I believe .
What he has is difficult to manage . SO thanks for t:pray:he prayers

[zeldabjr]

oh tt...so glad to hear Lucas's condition isn't something he'll have lifelong....

SC...sorry you have to go through this...thinking of you...

[Tiffanny Twisted]

thanks bj...

[glenneaglesfan]

Oh gosh, a few days away and a lot of catching up to do. Heartfelt thoughts to those of you with relatives suffering or getting over illness.

Nancy, belated wishes for a great trip to South Africa, and please send love to Monique!

Sheryl, good to hear from you again. Glad that you have little Owen to keep you busy! How are those labs of yours?

Brooke, great news about your upcoming new grandchild!

Lou, congratulations on finishing your PGCE. So glad Maisie turned up. Sorry to hear about your Grandmother, but hopefully an early diagnosis will lead to better care. My mum has dementia (vascular), but is in a superb care home, thanks to my late father for leaving some savings. I'd urge anyone with older parents to get Power of Attorney set up so that if the worst happens it can be activated.

Lisa, it's hard to think that Laura will be going to secondary school. Where did the time go?

I am back from a wonderful relaxing week in Turkey with my two sons. It was a 'Couples' Hotel, so we had a few strange looks to start with, but soon blended in and couldn't fault anything. Have posted a few pics on 'Every Picture Tells A Story' thread.

[SallyGee]

SC good luck I know the prep is not pleasant. Hope you get good results
TT I can't believe Lucas is 9 months old! I remember when you were waiting for him to be born. So glad he's doing so well.
GEF glad you had a nice trip.

[Prettymaid]

Ooh, heading there now, GEF. Glad to hear you had a good time!

[Outlawman13]

Kate, so glad that you had a wonderful time in Turkey!!! Those pictures are super amazing!!!!

[EaglesKiwi]

:grouphug: to all here with family members (& godsons) who have been in & out of hospital etc. As I read each post I send prayers up & good wishes out for everyone, even if I don't keep up with replying on here!.

TT, I thought that had to be a typo when you said little Lucas was NINE MONTHS old. That has gone so fast! (but when I read Brooke's post about how long she had to wait for her grandbaby I thought that would take forever :p - I guess not!). It's great to hear the wee man is thriving.

[Brooke]

TT, so glad to hear the baby's condition is not a permanent thing and that he is otherwise flourishing!

s-c, so sorry about your day at the DMV. It's pretty bad here too. My son bought a different truck and went in on his way to work for a week, waited in line, only to have to leave before getting his transfer done to get to work on time. He did finally get it done the last day, but multiple tries! The office used to be very efficient, but when the older ladies retired, it all went south. Now the clerk fields phone calls from home in between customers. Very frustrating. Oh, and best of luck with the c! Hate that!

Gef, great to hear you are back and had a nice trip! I'll be heading over to look at your photos next!

Molly, nice to hear from you again!

[Troubadour]

GEF, I'm glad you had a good trip! My sister loved Turkey when she visited with her boyfriend.

TT, thoughts are still with Lucas. I'm glad to hear he's doing okay.

[sad-cafe]

thanks everyone.

The drinking part of the prep is long done, now the "moving" part is going on. Feel like I have acid coming out the end. sheesh going to take a long hot bath just to soak when this is done.

[WalshFan88]

GEF - Glad you had a good trip!

TT - So sorry to hear about that. Thoughts and good wishes sent.

Soda - Have a fun and safe trip!!

SC - Good luck with your procedure.

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Well I've got (mostly) good news and bad news.

Good news is the sore throat is gone, and the lymph node swelling is going down. Also I hope my spleen is not so swollen but I have no way of checking that myself, lol. I just know to avoid blows to the stomach.

Bad news is ever since that eardrum rupture, my balance has been very poor. I feel like I'm going in circles. I see my new doctor (will get into that next) tomorrow (Wed) and hopefully he'll refer me on. The urgent care dr said I still had fluid in my ear but the infection was gone. She put me on steroid drops.

I still didn't understand how the mono and ear infection came on at the same time, it's very rare as mono is a virus and doesn't cause ear symptoms. According to the urgent care doc, it's because mono lowers your immune system down and makes you more likely to get an infection.

The only symptom other than the dizziness is just severe tiredness. I sleep a lot - and I don't try and resist it. She said it may last 6 months, along with malaise and feeling yucky. At least I can eat and drink without wincing in pain.

[Troubadour]

What an ordeal, Austin! I'm glad your throat isn't causing you as much pain as it was. Take it easy.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Feel better austin and good luck with the new doctor . Sometimes its a good thing to get a second opinion .
Just rest and let your body heal

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Ew that little boy is growing fast.

The cat keeps swatting her tail in front of him and he squeals when he catches it as the cat makes noise of protest. :rofl:

[Prettymaid]

Take care, Austin.

[Brooke]

WF, take care. Sounds like rest is a good thing for you.

[Grey Sadler]

:hug: Austin

Well, Dad is having one vein graft early next month, then a more complicated one two weeks later...will have to talk to one aunt or the other to see if we're going back to GA for one or both procedures...

[Prettymaid]

Keep us posted GS.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Amy
praye:grouphug:rs and hugs for u and dad

[Glennsallnighter]

Yes indeed Amy. I hope everything goes well for him. We treasure our Dads!

[Outlawman13]

:hug:Amy and Austin. Prayers for you guys and your dad Amy. I sure hope he gets better.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Amy, many prayers for your dad!!

I saw my 'second-line' manager briefly today. While they are offering me the promotion and patiently waiting for my decision, I am the interim manager and no one ever asked me if I was willing to do that. Hmm. Today he tells me that until the position is filled (by me or whomever) he needs me here pretty much every day. He realizes that's unrealistic and asked me to do two weeks at a time (probably to avoid travel costs). Since that works with my near-term concert schedule, I said 'sure'!

I'm making a pro/com list as someone (PM?) suggested. What does it say about me that 'Kentucky sells Captain Morgan in the grocery stores' is listed as a 'pro'?

[Houston Baby]

. What does it say about me that 'Kentucky sells Captain Morgan in the grocery stores' is listed as a 'pro'?

That you're an efficient shopper?
:lol:

[Houston Baby]

Austin - I hope you get your energy back soon! Keep resting!

GS - I'm keeping your dad in my prayers for a complete & quick recovery. Take care!

:hug:

[WalshFan88]

GS - Hope everything goes well! Prayers sent.

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Thanks everyone! I'm feeling decent at the moment other than the two problems I mentioned but I'm a heck of a lot better than I was last week.

[Brooke]

WF, great news!

GS, thoughts and prayers for you and your Dad.

VA, hope it all works out for you! And if the availability of the Captain helps, so be it! :thumbsup:

[Outlawman13]

Austin, so glad that you feel lots better

VA, I just wish you all the best and hope you have lots of Captain Morgan. LOL

[Troubadour]

Thinking of you and your dad, GS.

VA, the best of luck with your decision. Keep us posted!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

well this am I took a friends advise to rest up and I went and got a pedi . nice day

[Grey Sadler]

Guys...y'all are the best....:grouphug:

Dad is scheduled in 2 weeks for the blocked femoral vein in one leg to be unblocked...if all goes well, they'll do the other leg, which is more complicated. Then we will drive down and bring him back here for recovery if he's able...OTOH, if the first procedure isn't to his liking, he's agreed to give my aunt's doctor a shot at it here...*crossing fingers*

[Houston Baby]

Fingers crossed & prayers said, GS. Keep us informed.

[Outlawman13]

:hug:Amy!! I wish your dad the best and lots of prayers to you and your dad.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Amy
:wave: hang in

[Brooke]

GS, I hope it all goes well and he can come home with you.

TT, great idea! Good for you! :thumbsup:

[Prettymaid]

GS, at least your dad is considering recuperation time down with you. Sounds promising!

[sad-cafe]

colonoscopy looked good. Doc is pleased

Infusion on Friday and then done with doctors for a little while unless I have a flare


Thank GOD

[Houston Baby]

Great news SC! It is always a relief to get the medical procedures out of the way especially that one. :thumbsup:

[sad-cafe]

yes it does.

I wish I didn't have to do the infusions but it keeps me going.

[EaglesKiwi]

Glad to hear that, S-C.

Austin, good to hear you're feeling better.

VA - obviously you're a pragmatic girl. No point doing 2 trips to cover off the major food groups when you can do it in one... :grin: (I live in a "dry" zone, so we often do our grocery shopping out of the area so we can buy beer & wine at supermarket prices... )

GS all the best for your Dad's surgery.

[Outlawman13]

Pam, so glad that your colonoscopy went well for you!!!

[sad-cafe]

cleaning my house top to bottom. Today I have cleaned the upstairs hallway. Wiping down every wall, cleaning baseboards. I have two closets to clean out and the hall will be done. Then all I have left is upstairs bath, my bedroom and the kitchen.

It has been a job to say the least. Ought to have one heck of a yard sale

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Today they officially offered me the job, and it's required that I move to Kentucky if I take it. It's a good pay increase, so I need to really think about it and make a decision.

In the interim, they want me here two weeks at a time with a 'long weekend' between. I had to explain I have plans on the 22nd and 23rd of July that I can't change!

[Outlawman13]

I wish you the very best of luck on whatever you do Verna!!! I know you will make the right decision for yourself.

[Freypower]

Today they officially offered me the job, and it's required that I move to Kentucky if I take it. It's a good pay increase, so I need to really think about it and make a decision.

In the interim, they want me here two weeks at a time with a 'long weekend' between. I had to explain I have plans on the 22nd and 23rd of July that I can't change!

Good luck with whatever you decide.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Today they officially offered me the job, and it's required that I move to Kentucky if I take it. It's a good pay increase, so I need to really think about it and make a decision.

In the interim, they want me here two weeks at a time with a 'long weekend' between. I had to explain I have plans on the 22nd and 23rd of July that I can't change!

Well first, Congratulations va:cheers:.
I am sure u will weight all the options and make the best choice for u.will they give u time to relocate if u say yes?

[sad-cafe]

oh how exciting. Congrats on the Job.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Sc glad hings are going good medically....where did you get the energy to do your spring cleaning?

And thanks ......the toes are strawberry margarita pink with pink red and white glitter.I just let the girl do her thing and suprise me lol
I was just happy to sit in the massage chair with cool air blowing on me reading a great book in piece and quiet :bow:

[Prettymaid]

Today they officially offered me the job, and it's required that I move to Kentucky if I take it. It's a good pay increase, so I need to really think about it and make a decision.

In the interim, they want me here two weeks at a time with a 'long weekend' between. I had to explain I have plans on the 22nd and 23rd of July that I can't change!

VA, first of all, you should feel very proud of yourself. Don't gloss over that part. ;-) Secondly, as I've been trying to say the whole time, everything happens for a reason. You need to decide where you 'belong'. Good luck with your decision. Hugs all around! :grouphug:

[GlennLover]

SC-glad things went well for you.

VA-good luck with your decision making. That's a tough one. Congrats on being offered the job.

GS-praying that your dad's surgery is successful.

Austin-so glad you are feeling better. I know what the balance problems & dizziness are like. Not fun. I have Meniere's Disease & I average 2 to 3 days a week with mild to severe symptoms which can come on at any time.

[sad-cafe]

oh, I don't have energy so much as feel like I need to. During the school year I neglect a lot of things so during the summer I try to clean top to bottom

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Yeap that's what we're doing now lol called moving lol

[Glennsallnighter]

VA, good luck in making the right decision with your job offer! And well done in it!

S-C , I'm glad the medical procedure went well.

TT, good luck with the move!

[TimothyBFan]

VA--first congratulations on the job offer and second, good luck with the decision.

[SallyGee]

SC glad you had good results.
Austin gald you sre feeling better.
GS prayers for your dad and your family.
VA congrats. Good luck on your decision.

[Brooke]

VA, congrats to you on the job offer! And best of luck trying to decide what to do!

s-c, glad all is well! Have fun cleaning! But don't work too hard!

[Prettymaid]

My brother-in-law, Chuck, Hubby's brother, was diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig's disease, on February 21st. ALS is a disease in which certain nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord slowly die. These nerve cells are called motor neurons, and they control the muscles that allow you to move the parts of your body. Only 1 in 100,000 get ALS.

Chuck (45) noticed last summer that he was having trouble moving the fingers of his right hand. Thinking he had a pinched nerve in his neck, he began going to a chiropractor, but when his symptoms got worse his doctor sent him to a neurologist in Indianapolis. By this time Chuck had muscle weakening on his right side, muscle twitching and trouble speaking. An MRI confirmed the worst. It was ALS...

...People with ALS gradually become more disabled. How quickly the disease gets worse is different for everyone. Some people live with ALS for several years. But over time, ALS makes it hard to walk, speak, eat, swallow, and breathe. These problems can lead to injury, illness, and eventually death...

I posted this on March 15, 2011. Now Chuck is in his final days/weeks. He has been bedridden for months. His speech is not clear enough for me to understand anymore. His breathing is labored. He is ready to go. Ironically, his daughter made him a grandfather today, but he has not had a good last couple days. Please keep Chuck in your thoughts and prayers as he winds down his time here and prepares to enter his new life. I wish him peace.

[Outlawman13]

Cathy, I am so very sorry for your brother! I will keep him in my prayers! I wish him everything.

[Witchy Woman]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Cathy. Lou Gehrig's Disease is a horrible sickness and I send my best wishes to him for a peaceful and painless transition, and to you and your family for comfort and peace.

[sad-cafe]

I posted this on March 15, 2011. Now Chuck is in his final days/weeks. He has been bedridden for months. His speech is not clear enough for me to understand anymore. His breathing is labored. He is ready to go. Ironically, his daughter made him a grandfather today, but he has not had a good last couple days. Please keep Chuck in your thoughts and prayers as he winds down his time here and prepares to enter his new life. I wish him peace.


so sorry. PRaying for peace

[sad-cafe]

SO

my hubby is buying me a baby grand piano that is in really good shape for a really good price IF we can work out the logistics of getting it to our town and in our home. SO stoked.

[Glennsallnighter]

Cathy, I DO indeed remember you posting about Chuck a few times over the past few years. How sad for your family that it has come to this point. Of course I will pray for him, and all of you. :grouphug:

S-C - so cool about the baby grand. Hope the logistics work out for you.

[Houston Baby]

PM - I'm so sorry to hear about your bnl. Being new to the board, I did not realize that your family had been dealing with this horrible disease. I pray that Chuck has a peaceful passing & that you & his family find comfort in knowing that he will be whole again. I will keep you & your family in my prayers.:hug:

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Cathy, I'm sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and with Chuck as well, of course. Keep us posted.

SC, that's so cool about a baby grand!!

I'm cleaning the house, getting ready for the family to visit next week. As well as having a realator friend visit to see what she thinks about selling it. SC just gave me the great idea of making sure a house I buy in KY has room for a piano. I guess I've made up my mind, I just haven't talked to my Dad about it yet and I'm not looking forward to it.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Cathy. Lou Gehrig's Disease is a horrible sickness and I send my best wishes to him for a peaceful and painless transition, and to you and your family for comfort and peace.
I could not have said it any better
Peace and love
To all

[GlennLover]

Cathy, I will certainly pray for your brother in law & all his family.

SC- hope you get the piano

VA- it must be somewhat of a relief to have made your decision. I hope all goes well when yo tell your father.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

VA- it must be somewhat of a relief to have made your decision. I hope all goes well when yo tell your father.

TT brought up a good point. Can I be VAisForEagleLovers if I move to KY?

[Tiffanny Twisted]

I was only asking a question.Guess my joke missed ...oh well
You can still be VA in VAis for eagles lovers even if you are in ky as
far as I am concerned. guess it waould be an inside the border joke :rofl:

You'll be fine talking to your dad....I will say a prayer
Thank God he is there to talk to.....I lost mine years ago along with my mom .Losing my uncle reminds me now that he was my go to guy to talk things over with and he just passed in may. oh well..prayers for all

[Outlawman13]

I am glad you made your mind up VA! I hope your dad understands! I will say a prayer for you and keep you in my thoughts. I believe you will be happy! Lol your name can remain the same.

[Grey Sadler]

:hug: and :pray: Cathy & family
:thumbsup: SC!!
and :pray: for strength & guidance VA!

[Prettymaid]

TT brought up a good point. Can I be VAisForEagleLovers if I move to KY?

Ha! So in some ways you'll always be in VA!

Congratulations, VA-Soon-To-Be-From-KY!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Those joining the board after I move will be so confused!

Talked to Dad and I won't say he was happy about it, but he agrees that all the signs say this is what I'm supposed to do, and so I should do it. Now, I just need to let my new boss know on Monday and get a timeline from him. Obviously, he expects me to be there everyday except for an occasional long weekend, but there will be things I need to do here to get the house sold. Like pack. Has anyone out there had a moving company like Mayflower come in and pack and move lately? I don't think I can hire such a company for the amount I get for relocating, so I think I'll have to pack things myself.

[GlennLover]

Those joining the board after I move will be so confused!

Talked to Dad and I won't say he was happy about it, but he agrees that all the signs say this is what I'm supposed to do, and so I should do it. Now, I just need to let my new boss know on Monday and get a timeline from him. Obviously, he expects me to be there everyday except for an occasional long weekend, but there will be things I need to do here to get the house sold. Like pack. Has anyone out there had a moving company like Mayflower come in and pack and move lately? I don't think I can hire such a company for the amount I get for relocating, so I think I'll have to pack things myself.

I'm happy for you that your Dad understands & thinks it is what you should do.

[Outlawman13]

I'm so happy that your dad understands, VA and says you should go too!!!

[cinnamongirl]

I have lost two people in the past month that I loved very much. One was a shock, the other expected. Still I am desolate over these losses. One was my 91 yr old uncle and the other was one of the finest guitar builders in the southeast, and a dear friend. Sorry for the losses and illnesses of everyone out there.

[Glennsallnighter]

TT brought up a good point. Can I be VAisForEagleLovers if I move to KY?


Of course you can. VA is also your name - the first and last letters.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

va.......glad the talk with dad went well and supportive.god does answer prayers

I am sure the new boss will understand that you need some time to actually relocate and get your things from point a to point b... and that you also have a life and had some things planned that are unchangable. Plus you have to find a place to live.

I am sure it will all work out.


Oh :thumbsup:and you will always be VA around here

[sad-cafe]

I didn't get the baby grand piano. My friend's sister was also advertising it and someone beat me to it :(

[Tiffanny Twisted]

sorry sc maybe there will be another one just for you

[Troubadour]

CG - I'm so sorry for your recent losses. Wishing you comfort.

VA - congratulations! Exciting times ahead.

SC - I'm sorry about the piano.

PM - As always, I am keeping Chuck in my thoughts and praying for a peaceful transition for him. His story has really touched me and I wish him and his family comfort in the days ahead. You know that you can just call on me if ever you need to talk. :hug:

[Outlawman13]

CG-Sorry about your losses this last month!!! It is always so hard to lose some one so close!!!!

Pam-Sorry you didn't get that piano!!!

[Prettymaid]

Friday was my Dad's 85th birthday, and so we had them and my brother and SIL over for dinner. It had rained on Saturday and yesterday morning, so we weren't able to use the deck, but we ate on the screened porch and had a nice afternoon. The sun came out mid-afternoon turning it into a very pretty day.

[TimothyBFan]

PM--- I'm so sorry to hear about Chuck even tho it has been expected, it's never easy letting go. I will keep him and his family in my thoughts. I hope your hubby is taking it as well as can be expected. Hugs to all of you.

[Brooke]

Pm, I'm sorry to hear about your bnl's time being near and wish him peace. Thoughts and prayers to you and all of your family at this time.

Happy Birthday to your Dad. I'm glad the day turned out nice for that.

cg, thoughts and prayers for you too.

s-c, too bad about you missing out on the piano.

VA, best of luck getting situated! I'm glad the decision has been made. Yes, you'll always be VA on here no matter where you live!

[Outlawman13]

Cathy, happy birthday to your dad!!! So glad that you guys had an amazing time and the day turned out to be fantastic!!

[Glennsallnighter]

Happy Birthday to your Dad Cathy :birthday:. 85 is a very impressive age to achieve.

[Troubadour]

Happy Birthday to your dad, Cathy! I'm glad you had a lovely day.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

I made it official today, I accepted the job! I tried to list the people who now report to me, and it occurred to me that I don't know! I just had a conversation with the owner of the company that is providing us some subcontracters (that work full time) and he mentioned two people who I didn't even know about! I stopped counting at 22. The guy who's been my boss for the last 1.5 years is staying on part time to help code a new training module. I asked him who he'd work for. He said me. That will just be weird. Now, of course, I'm wondering when the raise kicks in!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

:computer:yeah Va ...whoo hoo
You will do a great job.
It always works out the way its supossta work out

[Henley Honey]

I made it official today, I accepted the job! I tried to list the people who now report to me, and it occurred to me that I don't know! I just had a conversation with the owner of the company that is providing us some subcontracters (that work full time) and he mentioned two people who I didn't even know about! I stopped counting at 22. The guy who's been my boss for the last 1.5 years is staying on part time to help code a new training module. I asked him who he'd work for. He said me. That will just be weird. Now, of course, I'm wondering when the raise kicks in!


Congratulations, VA!!!! I know you'll excel at this new position. I wish you all the best!!!!

[Freypower]

I made it official today, I accepted the job! I tried to list the people who now report to me, and it occurred to me that I don't know! I just had a conversation with the owner of the company that is providing us some subcontracters (that work full time) and he mentioned two people who I didn't even know about! I stopped counting at 22. The guy who's been my boss for the last 1.5 years is staying on part time to help code a new training module. I asked him who he'd work for. He said me. That will just be weird. Now, of course, I'm wondering when the raise kicks in!

Think of it this way.

The best people are leaders. :thumbsup: :applause: :wink:

[VAisForEagleLovers]

LOL!! I was quite happy being a technical lead and leaving the politics to someone else, though!

[Prettymaid]

Now, of course, I'm wondering when the raise kicks in!

All that decision making, weighing the pros and cons, and you didn't ask when the raise kicks in?!! Lol!

[Glennsallnighter]

I made it official today, I accepted the job! I tried to list the people who now report to me, and it occurred to me that I don't know! I just had a conversation with the owner of the company that is providing us some subcontracters (that work full time) and he mentioned two people who I didn't even know about! I stopped counting at 22. The guy who's been my boss for the last 1.5 years is staying on part time to help code a new training module. I asked him who he'd work for. He said me. That will just be weird. Now, of course, I'm wondering when the raise kicks in!


Best of luck n your new position VA! I'm sure you will do a wonderful job!

[Outlawman13]

Good luck VA!!! I know you will make a very, strong leader!!! You deserve it girl!!!

[Prettymaid]

The only part I don't like is that VA isn't going to have nearly as much Border time. :-(

[VAisForEagleLovers]

I'm not even certain I'll have access to Ticketmaster and VIP Nation during the days!! I will find a way on that, believe me...

[Brooke]

Congratulations VA! I know you will do a great job! Just don't get too busy being fabulous! :wink: :lol: We need ya around here too!

[Outlawman13]

LOL yes we do need you around here for sure!!! Love having you around

[prayfordaylight]

I'm not even certain I'll have access to Ticketmaster and VIP Nation during the days!! I will find a way on that, believe me...

There's always the phone apps :D (they do actually work sometimes)

Congrats again!

[EaglesKiwi]

Congratulations VA! Am I the only one who thought "that raise can go towards more concert tickets!!" (after relocation expenses I suppose... sigh).

Cathy, glad your Dad had a nice birthday. Prayers for Chuck and all the family, and a warm welcome to your new great-niece/nephew.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

EK my boss made the same comment on my facebook page!

Worried about my Dad. Debbie took him to the ER tonight. His left arm hurt. Ran tests, his enzyme levels were high compared to before.

[Outlawman13]

Oh my!! I'm sorry your dad had to go to the hospital again VA! He is in my prayers again.

[Brooke]

VA, I hope your Dad turns out to be alright. Prayers going up!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

va prayers sent for dad again and you as well.

Glad Debbie took him to er so he could be checked out

[Prettymaid]

VA, I don't blame you for being worried. I'd be, too. A couple of weeks ago, when we took my mom and dad to the wedding, mom said she wasn't feeling well and her arm had been hurting. Ever since she had a couple of stents put in 2 years ago, I worry about her. She is always short of breath. But as the day progressed she said she was feeling better. (That's what she said...)

I'm hoping they can take care of your dad lickety-split and he will be like his old self. :hug:

[Troubadour]

Positive vibes to your dad, VA. Hope he's okay.

[GlennLover]

VA, I'm praying that it's nothing serious with your dad.

[sodascouts]

Just popping in to say I'm back in the USA! I'm too tired to catch up tonight - I'm heading to bed right now - but I can't wait to do so soon! I'll post photos soon!

[Troubadour]

So glad you're back safe, Soda! Have a good rest. You've had a long old flight!

[Henley Honey]

Just popping in to say I'm back in the USA! I'm too tired to catch up tonight - I'm heading to bed right now - but I can't wait to do so soon! I'll post photos soon!


Welcome home, Soda!!!!

Now get some rest cause in 3 days it's party time in Louisville!!!! :yay:

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Yeah soda is back in town and so soon too shall be the boys:yay:

[WalshFan88]

VA - Best wishes and thoughts to your dad. Prayers sent!

Soda - Welcome back!! Glad you had a safe trip.

[Prettymaid]

Aw Soda, it's so good to see your avatar again! We've missed you! Get some rest - I hear there's a party in Louisville on Saturday!

[Freypower]

Just popping in to say I'm back in the USA! I'm too tired to catch up tonight - I'm heading to bed right now - but I can't wait to do so soon! I'll post photos soon!

Hello Nancy! Welcome back! :yay:

[Outlawman13]

Glad to have you back!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Yay Soda! Welcome back!

As for Dad, apparently the vein they use from the leg is bigger than the vessels they attach it too and so sometimes it causes clotting problems. He is in the hospital for 48 hrs for a Coumadin IV then will go home. So nothing life threatening. Whew!!

[Prettymaid]

Good deal VA. I hope you are enjoying VA Beach.

[Brooke]

VA, good news about your Dad! Prayers for him!

Welcome back to the good ol' USA, Soda! Can't wait to hear and see all about your adventure!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

va great news about dad ,,,prayers do work

[sodascouts]

Good news about your dad, VA!

And yes, I'm very glad to be home, although I wish I had time to get my hair done before Louisville. South Africa was good for the spirit, but hard on the hair!

[Glennsallnighter]

Welcome home Soda! We've missed you but by all accounts you have had a very enriching experience. Hope you manage to get your hair sorted before Louisville.

VA. glad to hear the news is good for your Dad.

[Prettymaid]

We are spending 4th of July afternoon here at home. Currently I am relaxing on the deck. It's been overcast and rainy here the past week, but today has been gorgeous with sunny skies, mild temperatures and low humidity.

In the past we would have our families over for a cookout on the 4th, but ever since Chuck got too sick to come, we haven't done it. Later this afternoon we will grill some hamburgers.

Yesterday we bought a new car. We just purchased a new one in April of last year, a Chevy Equinox, and I just loved it. In October we were heading to our favorite pizza place for dinner, and as we crossed an intersection someone ran the red light and slammed into the front passenger corner of our vehicle. Just a second sooner and the passenger side would have been hit, and I most surely would have gone to the hospital. Thankfully, no one was injured, but our car sustained heavy damage. We thought for sure it would be totaled, and probably would have been if the air bag had deployed. While at the accident site a tow truck came and the driver asked us where we wanted it towed. Having never used an auto body repair shop before, we had to choose one quickly. Long story short, we picked the wrong one, because we have had to take it back repeatedly for many things. Just when we thought everything was fixed, the clear coat over the paint started peeling. As much as I hated to give it up, I had to agree with Hubby that it was time to get rid of it.

So yesterday we traded it in for another Equinox. I am thrilled! I was able to get the car I love with a few upgrades! This morning we took it over to the in laws, and then to my parent's, and we went and visited with Chuck for awhile. Since it is a beautiful shade of red, I named her Ruby. ;-) I'm looking forward to taking her to Louisville on Saturday!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Good luck and may you enjoy miss ruby red:hilarious:

[Brooke]

Pm, what a hassle with your car! Enjoy the new one! I've been pondering trading my Jeep Liberty for a Chevy Equinox. My Liberty just doesn't ride as smoothly as I would like it to and the gas mileage is not great.

We had a great evening at one of my husband's brothers. Barbecue and desserts and the teenagers put on a great fireworks show. It was a lovely evening. For the last few years it has been unbearably hot and this year it was really nice.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Turns out, the news is not so good with my dad. He apparently had a heart attack between when he got to the ER and had the heart cath. It did some pretty serious damage to his heart, so he'll have some pretty severe restrictions put on him for the rest of his life with regards to strenuous activity. Needless to say, he's pretty depressed about this. He did everything right in all this and a poor judgement call by his surgeon regarding blood thinners is what caused this to happen. We, the family, are just devastated, of course.

On the positive side of life, I now get why hundreds of thousands of people flock to Virginia Beach for the 4th. Our hotel is right on 21st street, where they set off the fireworks from barges out on the ocean, so we were able to watch from our balconies. Best fireworks display I've ever seen. We check out later and return to my house for the weekend.

[Outlawman13]

VA, I'm so sorry that your dad had another heart attack!!! Lots of prayers and thoughts coming your way!!!!

[Troubadour]

Cathy, I'm so glad you weren't injured in that crash. I love the name Ruby for a car! Red is my favourite colour.

VA, I'm so sorry to hear the news about your dad. I hope and pray that his life won't be impacted too much... sending hugs your way.

[Brooke]

VA, I'm so sorry about your Dad, but at least he survived! I know his life must change now, but if he takes care of himself and takes his meds he will probably be ok. My Mom had a massive heart attack about 10 years ago and it severely damaged the lower chamber, but she is doing very well still. She had 3 stents put in at the time and has had 2 more since. It's a lot to wrap your mind around and get used to dealing with, but hopefully all will go well. Thoughts and prayers to him and all of your family. :hug:

[sodascouts]

Sorry to hear about your dad's heart attack VA. Praying for him!

[WalshFan88]

So sorry to hear about your dad, VA. Prayers sent.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

We are spending 4th of July afternoon here at home. Currently I am relaxing on the deck. It's been overcast and rainy here the past week, but today has been gorgeous with sunny skies, mild temperatures and low humidity.

In the past we would have our families over for a cookout on the 4th, but ever since Chuck got too sick to come, we haven't done it. Later this afternoon we will grill some hamburgers.

Yesterday we bought a new car. We just purchased a new one in April of last year, a Chevy Equinox, and I just loved it. In October we were heading to our favorite pizza place for dinner, and as we crossed an intersection someone ran the red light and slammed into the front passenger corner of our vehicle. Just a second sooner and the passenger side would have been hit, and I most surely would have gone to the hospital. Thankfully, no one was injured, but our car sustained heavy damage. We thought for sure it would be totaled, and probably would have been if the air bag had deployed. While at the accident site a tow truck came and the driver asked us where we wanted it towed. Having never used an auto body repair shop before, we had to choose one quickly. Long story short, we picked the wrong one, because we have had to take it back repeatedly for many things. Just when we thought everything was fixed, the clear coat over the paint started peeling. As much as I hated to give it up, I had to agree with Hubby that it was time to get rid of it.

So yesterday we traded it in for another Equinox. I am thrilled! I was able to get the car I love with a few upgrades! This morning we took it over to the in laws, and then to my parent's, and we went and visited with Chuck for awhile. Since it is a beautiful shade of red, I named her Ruby. ;-) I'm looking forward to taking her to Louisville on Saturday!

PM, sorry to hear about the car hassles, but very glad you got a new one! I would be in the same boat, if asked where something should be towed to, I'd have no clue.

[Molly]

Enjoy your new car, Cathy! I hope you have nothing but safe and hassle free journey's with this new one!

Va-sorry to hear about your dad's struggles. My dad had his first heart attack in his 30's before I was born. He went on to have a couple more (one when I was in 8 years old and came home from school to find him lying on the ground-I'll never forget that!). He had some restrictions, but as the years went by, he found ways to "work around them" and certainly did enjoy a long and productive life. He would get grumpy and depressed every time he had a set-back, but he always bounced back.

It's good that your dad knows what he's up against, and his doctors can now monitor him and keep on top of it and keep his life as normal as possible.

Crazy week! Tom Petty concert last Friday (it was excellent!), 3 trips down to Summerfest (including tomorrow's Eagles show-yeah!), grandson, Owen's "1 and a half" year party last Saturday (where a 4 foot Sponge Bob balloon made an appearance and scared the bejeebers out of him...oops, grandma may have misjudged that one), hubby's birthday on the 4th, and hubby's high school class reunion tonight.

I've had too much sun so I'm fried (freyed?) and tired...but it's been a nice run of getting together with family and friends.

Enjoy your weekend, all!

[glenneaglesfan]

Molly, so glad to hear from you again, and had to laugh out loud at little Owen's reaction to Spongebob! I hadn't realised your Dad had suffered from heart trouble at such an early age, but glad to know he continued to have a rewarding life, and he must have been proud of you and your two wonderful sons.

PM, so sorry to hear about your brother in law. Glad the new car is a success.

VA, good luck with your new job, you will be an asset!

Brooke, sounds like you had a lovely evening!

Nancy, welcome back, we've missed you! Did you manage to meet up with Monique?

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Rather bittersweet...the realtor's sign is in the yard, the papers signed. The house I've lived in for 20 years is officially on the market.

[Troubadour]

Hugs, VA. That must feel quite strange and make you a little emotional... but new, great things are on the horizon. I wish you all the best!

Molly, I have to say, I laughed at the SpongeBob thing too! Poor little Owen. :lol:

[Prettymaid]

Enjoy your new car, Cathy! I hope you have nothing but safe and hassle free journey's with this new one!

A funny thing happened on the way home from Louisville...(I'm not laughing) :eyebrow: We were traveling in the right lane heading north on 65, following a vehicle pulling a trailer with a boat on it, when suddenly the trailer's tire blew, causing debris in front of us. The traffic was heavy, and there was no way for us to get into the left lane. Hubby tried to put as much distance between us as possible, but when the vehicle pulled onto the shoulder it kicked a rock up and we heard that awful, loud tap and spotted a crack in our windshield.

We purchased the car Thursday evening and drove it off the lot at 7:00 p.m. Hubby went to the insurance company to change things over on Friday during his lunch hour, but they were closed. Fortunately, he left a voicemail with our agent telling her we had purchased a new vehicle. We'll contact the insurance company and the glass company tomorrow.

Honestly, this stuff doesn't usually happen to us! The car gods must be angry with us, or something. :-(

[Troubadour]

Wow, that's crazy, PM!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Pm sorry about your car troubles.
Va I know moving is tough and you r attached to your house but you are what made it a home. Just think of life as the adventure and journey god intended it to be

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Oh no, PM! It must be the weekend for crazy things. Coming back from the beach on Friday, a guy lost the hitch on his trailer and only had the chains. The trailer weaved all over the place, but he was able to get it off the side of the road and to a stop. However, a wagon wheel (like from a wagon back in the 1700's) came off and spun around and came across the interstate right in front of my sister. She managed to avoid hitting it and it went off to the left and in the median. She was still shaking hours later.

[Prettymaid]

Oh no, PM! It must be the weekend for crazy things. Coming back from the beach on Friday, a guy lost the hitch on his trailer and only had the chains. The trailer weaved all over the place, but he was able to get it off the side of the road and to a stop. However, a wagon wheel (like from a wagon back in the 1700's) came off and spun around and came across the interstate right in front of my sister. She managed to avoid hitting it and it went off to the left and in the median. She was still shaking hours later.

The roads were busy, that's for sure!

[sodascouts]

Nancy, welcome back, we've missed you! Did you manage to meet up with Monique?

Yes! We had a lovely evening at the V&A Waterfront. It was great! I'm so glad I finally got to meet her in person after all these years!

I also got to meet up with SteveJoburg and his wife in Johannesburg, who are both terrific people. We had a great night, too.

PM - so awful about the new car! At least you're ok.

VA - I know how difficult it is to say goodbye to one's home of many years. I even got choked up moving out of my apartment in West Lafayette, and that place was a dump. It's not the building, it's the memories. The good news is that you get to take those with you.

[WalshFan88]

PM - Sorry to hear that about the new car.

VA - Good luck with the moving.

[Brooke]

Pm, that's crazy! Glad it wasn't worse too!

VA, looks like someone was looking out for you and your sister too! Your sister did good! And yes, I'm sure you officially putting your house on the market was hard for you after being there for 20 years. But, on to bigger and better things and new adventures!

Soda, I'm glad to hear you got to meet up with our South African Borderers! Sounds fun! And glad your are home and safe from all of your extended travels!

[Outlawman13]

VA-It is very difficult to say goodbye to the house you've lived in for years. Good luck though.

Nancy-so glad that you got to finally meet Monique and Steve. I bet they were nice people. I'm glad you had a great time down there and how did that coat hold up? I hope that kept you warm

[Prettymaid]

VA, good luck with selling your house. Soda said it well, it's the memories you take with you.

[TimothyBFan]

Wow PM---What are the chances? Geez! Hope it all works out ok.

VA--hugs to you. It's never easy to let go. It's all kind of sudden for you too. Hope it sells quickly for you.

[Houston Baby]

It's going to take awhile to catch up here but in the meantime :grouphug: for everyone!
It sounds like some crazy things have been happening on the road.

[Troubadour]

Yes! We had a lovely evening at the V&A Waterfront. It was great! I'm so glad I finally got to meet her in person after all these years!

That's so cool. Totally brings back some memories for me, too... The V&A Waterfront was a place I frequented on my trips to Cape Town. So beautiful!

[timfan]

Wow this has been quite the evening.. had a severe thunderstorm with some reports of over 100mm of rain and power outage in our area for over 5 hours (apparently our whole city had it's power knocked out by the fierce storm). Luckily Dad and I carried the excess water out from the sump pump hourly thus avoiding damage to our house (tho our neighbours weren't as lucky ending up with water in the garage and basement up to their knees).

[Prettymaid]

Oh my TF! Glad you didn't get the water your neighbors did!

[Outlawman13]

TF, I'm sorry that you had all of that rain, but glad that you and your dad carried all of that water out of your house.

[Grey Sadler]

I think it's time for a :grouphug:!!
I am trying to keep up with all the happenings with y'all...
and my dad's leg vein graft was supposed to start about now...he makes it sound like it's going to be very simpler (as compared to the graft on the other leg coming up), so we haven't gone down there (yet...but will be ready to roll back to GA if needed)...

[Outlawman13]

Amy, I hope your dad the best with the leg stuff!!! Prayers for him and your family!!

[Prettymaid]

Yes GS, we're hanging in there with you with thoughts and prayers for your dad.

[sodascouts]

Prayers for your dad, GS!

Kath - so glad your house avoid damage through you and your dad's diligence.

[Brooke]

I echo that tf and GS. :grouphug:

[Troubadour]

Forgive my vent here, but my flatmate has just upset me by starting an argument. It's over nothing, but she is so accusatory and aggressive in her tone, and she twists everything. She has done it before with our other flatmates - I have tried to get on with her but she is just a negative, self-centred person who turns on everyone at some point. That's why I'm frustrated that I'm upset. She doesn't matter at all. It's just hard because it's only the two of us here now and I hate bad feeling, even if it's someone I'm not keen on. I just can't wait until her negative energy is out of my life... Ugh.

[Houston Baby]

Prayers said for your dads - GS & VA. And they will continue to be in my prayers.

Hang in there Troub! Do NOT let her negative energy infect you! I know it will not since you are such a positive person but it is frustrating that some people are just negative. You can vent here! Don't give her the pleasure of seeing you upset. My sister can sometimes be negative so I gave her a sign that says -

"Happiness is NOT a destination - It is a WAY of Life!"

:hug:

[Prettymaid]

How could someone get snippy with you?!!! I can't even imagine how or why that would happen. Good for you for taking the high road, Lou. I believe everyone who crosses our path does so to teach us something or to learn something from us, and vice versa. Most of the time we're not even aware of it. Do the right thing, and hope that September comes quickly!

[Troubadour]

Thank you guys. I will be fine once I've had a bit of time to get over the initial emotional reaction to it, because I know that the problem lies with her and that I will never have to see her again soon... but I hate that she has succeeded in making me cry. (Not in front of her.) I know she's not worth the tears, and it's just frustrating that I can't just shrug it off straight away.

[Prettymaid]

Thank you guys. I will be fine once I've had a bit of time to get over the initial emotional reaction to it, because I know that the problem lies with her and that I will never have to see her again soon... but I hate that she has succeeded in making me cry. (Not in front of her.) I know she's not worth the tears, and it's just frustrating that I can't just shrug it off straight away.

That's not because of the kind of person she is, but because of the kind of person you are. Don't be upset at yourself for being you. Normal people get upset and cry after a confrontation. You're normal!

[Troubadour]

I know you're right. Thanks. :hug:

[Brooke]

Troub, I'm sorry to hear about this. Hang in there, you'll be away from her soon and she's not worth it! :soda:

[sodascouts]

Forgive my vent here, but my flatmate has just upset me by starting an argument. It's over nothing, but she is so accusatory and aggressive in her tone, and she twists everything. She has done it before with our other flatmates - I have tried to get on with her but she is just a negative, self-centred person who turns on everyone at some point. That's why I'm frustrated that I'm upset. She doesn't matter at all. It's just hard because it's only the two of us here now and I hate bad feeling, even if it's someone I'm not keen on. I just can't wait until her negative energy is out of my life... Ugh.

Just separate yourself from her as much as possible until you move out. Hang in there! :hug:

[Henley Honey]

Thank you guys. I will be fine once I've had a bit of time to get over the initial emotional reaction to it, because I know that the problem lies with her and that I will never have to see her again soon... but I hate that she has succeeded in making me cry. (Not in front of her.) I know she's not worth the tears, and it's just frustrating that I can't just shrug it off straight away.


My nasty NY advice would probably get you arrested, so I'll suggest instead that you put it into context. On the day that you die will what she said matter to you in the slightest? Concentrate on the big picture and count the days till you're done with her. If that doesn't work, stick a nasty looking bug in her bed, sit back and wait and enjoy her squeals of horror.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

My nasty NY advice would probably get you arrested, so I'll suggest instead that you put it into context. On the day that you die will what she said matter to you in the slightest? Concentrate on the big picture and count the days till you're done with her. If that doesn't work, stick a nasty looking bug in her bed, sit back and wait and enjoy her squeals of horror.

Wow, I'm glad I haven't made you angry over anything!! Otherwise, Seattle and NYC concerts could be a little uncomfortable as I wouldn't sleep due to looking for bugs! So glad I'm an :angel:

[Tiffanny Twisted]

i cant add anything but to tell you that hh is a wise womsn as is soda and of course va is an:angel:
so listen to the wise ones here and the :angel:

[Henley Honey]

Wow, I'm glad I haven't made you angry over anything!! Otherwise, Seattle and NYC concerts could be a little uncomfortable as I wouldn't sleep due to looking for bugs! So glad I'm an :angel:

It couldn't hurt to look. You never know!!! :fear:

[Grey Sadler]

Bugs?! Hoo boy...:worried:

Dad called us at about 5:30 and said he "just got to the room"...but I'm 100% sure he will not remember that phone conversation! Not only was he completely zonked, his mouth was very dry and we couldn't understand half of what he was saying, ack!

He'll have to clarify tomorrow, but he told us his incisions were bigger than he expected...will just have to wait until he's more clear-headed to talk about the surgery...good to hear him on the phone, albiet kinda muffled/loopy!! :thumbsup:

[Houston Baby]

It couldn't hurt to look. You never know!!! :fear:

Memo to self - be nice to HH OR keep bedroom door locked in Seattle! :rofl:

[Houston Baby]

GS - I am relieved that you have talked to your dad no matter the conversation. I will continue to keep him in my prayers.:hug:

[Victim of Love]

I am in the deepest depression of my entire life tonight. Didn't get moved so didn't make tonight's show. Checking for tickets for Lincoln, Denver and Moline.

[Grey Sadler]

:hug: VofL

[Troubadour]

My nasty NY advice would probably get you arrested, so I'll suggest instead that you put it into context. On the day that you die will what she said matter to you in the slightest? Concentrate on the big picture and count the days till you're done with her. If that doesn't work, stick a nasty looking bug in her bed, sit back and wait and enjoy her squeals of horror.

Haha! You are so right, HH, thank you. I'm pretty much over it now. I know she doesn't matter at all.

VOL, I'm so sorry. :hug:

[Houston Baby]

VOL - I am so sorry. I will keep my fingers crossed & prayers said that you make another show. I feel so bad for you. :hug:

[Brooke]

HH, that was funny! Be careful ladies! :lol:

VoL, I'm so sorry! Hopefully you will get to at least one of those shows!

[Victim of Love]

Thanks all...I'm disappointed but figure being relatively close to Denver, Lincoln and Moline should get me to at least one show...then I remembered I closer to Minneapolis! DUH!

[WalshFan88]

VOL - So sorry to hear that. Here's hoping you can get to another show soon.

---

Everything is going ok here. Mono is starting to wind down and the tiredness is less and less every day but kind of unpredictable still. Ear is doing great actually, it feels unclogged now and no problems with balance anymore.

We got our pool put in last week and I've been swimming almost every day. It's so nice! I love it. It's got a light in it for nighttime swimming. It's a 18x33 oval pool. It's so much nicer than the Walmart pool. :hilarious:

This Saturday is a vintage guitar/amp auction about an hour or so away from here that I'll be going to, here's hoping I can get something and the prices aren't crazy like they usually are, lol. It'll still be fun.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

glad you are feeling better austin ...have fun at the vintage guitar show ...you will enjoy even if you dont buy but I bet you do

[Brooke]

WF, glad you're feeling better! The new pool sounds nice! Enjoy it and have fun at the guitar auction!

GS, good news from your Dad. :yay:

[Houston Baby]

Austin - I'm so glad that you are starting to feel better. Keep resting & don't overdo it. I see that you are putting your "down" time to excellent use with all these video posts - we love you for those!! :thumbsup:

Also try and keep that pool water out of your ears or at least dry them out good after swimming!

Have fun Saturday!! You will be in guitar/amp heaven! :woah:

[Troubadour]

Glad you're feeling a bit better, Austin. Have a great time at the auction - I know you will!

[Prettymaid]

VOL, I hope you can make it to one of these shows. You've just gotta!

WF, glad to hear (no pun intended) that your ear is clearing up. Try to get the rest you need...don't overdo it!

[Glennsallnighter]

Lou! Don't mind your flatmate. You are so right. It's her, not you.

EVERYBODY, remind me not to get on HH's wrong side in NYC later this year! I do NOT want to be the bringer of bed bugs to Ireland......

GS, glad you got to talk to your Dad. I hope he's feeling better by now.

And glad you ARE feeling better Austin

[sad-cafe]

:grouphug::grouphug: to everyone that is experiencing hardships. Life is funny. One day we can be on top of the world only to have it crash down around us.

I think of my friends On The Border often. I appreciate the kinship and the fact that we can "vent" our troubles and offer consolation and ideas without fear of ill-will.

I so appreciate all of you and it is my sincere wish that one day we can all be on top of the world and that it lasts for more than a day!

[WalshFan88]

Thanks everyone!

GS - Glad you got to talk to your dad. Hope he gets well soon!

[Troubadour]

Well said, SC. I completely agree.

[Outlawman13]

I feel the same way SC.

GS, I am glad that you talked to your dad

[glenneaglesfan]

I echo everything that has been said here. You are all a great bunch of people and a huge support to those of us who are struggling.

I have had contact with my husband tonight. I was hoping to negotiate a settlement that would allow me to stay in my home, but he is certain it will have to be sold. He is continuing his relationship with a 23 yr old girl (he is 54). I am caught between divorce, and losing my home, or gritting my teeth and putting up with his adultery while he has continued to agree to pay the bills.

I know what everyone would advise, but I am foolish and despite all the trash I've received from him I still remember the many good times we shared and can't really understand what's happened. I love my house, and would be devastated to leave.

Thanks for letting me vent.

[Troubadour]

I'm so sorry, Kate. :hug: Feel free to vent all you want. No advice and no judgement... you have to do what you have to do. It's an impossible situation and one that must be so emotionally draining. We're all here for you.

[Houston Baby]

GEF - I'm so sorry that you are going thru this. I have no advice but we are always here to listen & support you. Separation or divorce is never easy. I hope you find peace soon. I will keep you in my prayers. :hug:

[Prettymaid]

We're here for you GEF, whatever you decide.

[Outlawman13]

We are here for you Kate and you can vent all you want. It's a terrible thing he is doing to you and we will back you up no matter what you choose.

[Grey Sadler]

:hug: Kate

[Brooke]

Kate, I'm so sorry. This is terrible for you and I hope you can come up with a solution soon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there. Whatever you decide, we are here for you. :hug:

[WalshFan88]

GEF - Best wishes.

[sodascouts]

Kate, I wrote out a whole long post giving advice and then I realized that if you wanted my advice, you'd ask for it, lol. I think you know in your heart whether or not his "offer" and treatment of you is acceptable without me having to tell you.

So, instead, I'll just tell you that I'm praying for you to make the right decision and we'll be there for you no matter what.

I have to add, though, that YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK YOU ARE.

[prayfordaylight]

As the child of a divorce because of adultery, I know it's not an easy situation for anyone. I know you'll make the right choice GEF.

[Molly]

Oh, Kate...I wish I was there to give you a hug in person! You deserve better than what he's offering.

I pray for you that time will help your heart heal enough that you'll be able to move forward with your life and your happiness whether that's married or divorced, still living in your house, or living someplace new.

[SallyGee]

Kate, I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I can't begin to imagine all of the emotions you are dealing with.
I will keep you in my prayers.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Kate, it's easy for me to sit here and say to get rid of the guy, but really, it's all about what's best for YOU! Walking away from a husband and a home can be devastating when it's not your decision. Sometimes deep changes like that all at once can be too much, sometimes a clean break is the best thing. You know yourself better than anyone. Go with your intuition and vent here all you like!

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Hertz continues to screw up where I'm concerned. I know that Louisville is a small enough airport that the rental cars are probably actually franchised, but still, they can't seem to do anything right. First up was the last trip here a few weeks ago, no one in the lot to do returns. Had to go in and stand in a very long line. This trip, the line to pick up the car was even longer. 20 or so because again no one in the return lot. Then, the car I get has damage, no security clicker, has latex paint peeling off a back window, and stinks to high heaven of cigarette smoke. Really stinks. Today, the 'limited slip' and 'check engine' lights came on and the thing runs like a bucking bronco. Fortunately there's a Hertz place here in E-Town. I'll try it before heading back to Louisville to trade.

In other news, I've already gotten an offer on my house. I haven't decided if I should accept it or not, my head hurts too much to think it through.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Hertz continues to screw up where I'm concerned. I know that Louisville is a small enough airport that the rental cars are probably actually franchised, but still, they can't seem to do anything right. First up was the last trip here a few weeks ago, no one in the lot to do returns. Had to go in and stand in a very long line. This trip, the line to pick up the car was even longer. 20 or so because again no one in the return lot. Then, the car I get has damage, no security clicker, has latex paint peeling off a back window, and stinks to high heaven of cigarette smoke. Really stinks. Today, the 'limited slip' and 'check engine' lights came on and the thing runs like a bucking bronco. Fortunately there's a Hertz place here in E-Town. I'll try it before heading back to Louisville to trade.

In other news, I've already gotten an offer on my house. I haven't decided if I should accept it or not, my head hurts too much to think it through.

Sleep on it head wonnt hurt

[sodascouts]

Hertz continues to screw up where I'm concerned. I know that Louisville is a small enough airport that the rental cars are probably actually franchised, but still, they can't seem to do anything right. First up was the last trip here a few weeks ago, no one in the lot to do returns. Had to go in and stand in a very long line. This trip, the line to pick up the car was even longer. 20 or so because again no one in the return lot. Then, the car I get has damage, no security clicker, has latex paint peeling off a back window, and stinks to high heaven of cigarette smoke. Really stinks. Today, the 'limited slip' and 'check engine' lights came on and the thing runs like a bucking bronco. Fortunately there's a Hertz place here in E-Town. I'll try it before heading back to Louisville to trade.

In other news, I've already gotten an offer on my house. I haven't decided if I should accept it or not, my head hurts too much to think it through.

Ugh, I hate that kind of crap with rental cars! Been there!

Amazing that you already have an offer! Like TT says, take some time to think it over when you have a clearer head.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

I guess when you are in your new area u won't have to worry about renting cars.
Its amazing that you have an offer in.1 week. If you trust your agent be guided by their advise.
Sometimes the money is right and terms bad or vise versa
If u get overwhelmed. Sleep on it and say your prayers..u will get ur sign

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Kate prayers and hugs . Do what's right and best for u. We can All give u an opinion but we all have them and no one walks in your shoes but you and have to look. yourself in the mirrow each day and be happy with what u see. Prayers as u make ur choice annd sleep on it

[prayfordaylight]

Renting cars is just the worst. The hidden charges kill me.

Awesome that you already got an offer considering it's still hard to sell in most places! I'm sure you'll make the right choice when it's time.

[Outlawman13]

Sorry about the car situation VA! Great that you already have an area picked out.

[Brooke]

VA, good luck in all situations!

[TimothyBFan]

VA-- Fingers crossed that it will all work out and smoothly.

[glenneaglesfan]

You have all just moved me to tears. Thank you so much for all your support.

With your help, and that from my solid sons, I think I am reaching the decision to go ahead. I have the papers ready. I just need to send them off.

We made a beautiful house together, a view to die for, a conservatory, a hot tub, everything we wanted except a happy relationship in the end. We had two wonderful sons. He suddenly wanted someone who could keep up with his quest for youth, not a sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights.

He's off to do some major mountain climbing with his girlfriend this weekend. I am visiting my sister who needs hip surgery soon.

[Prettymaid]

Too bad your philandering husband couldn't keep up with your quest for growing old together...

Sorry GEF. It's hard to not trash him. :hilarious:

[Glennsallnighter]

You are a strong person Kate and from knowing you I know you will make the right decision.
I know there's a saying 'when God closes one door he opens another'. And while one door seems to be very obviously being closed I hope that a new door of happiness and peace will open. It's a shame that the marriage you both invested so much in has come to this, but IMHO he has lost far more than you, and you have your two wonderful sons sticking by you.

I hope York sisters surgery goes well.

Keep in touch here. And vent all you like

And looking forward to next year.......... You'll be able to go and see our boys again when they do Europe!!!!!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Too bad your philandering husband couldn't keep up with your quest for growing old together...

Sorry GEF. It's hard to not trash him. :hilarious:
you really cant trash him because half of him is in her :solid sons:
you can trash his undigified childish behavior and poor choices in his life .but to trash him trashes her sons.
My fave line is "at this moment with your behavior, you are choosing to emulate not one of your dads better qualities" stopped my kid dead in his tracks every time...when he was little..gave him something to think about.

[Henley Honey]

you really cant trash him because half of him is in her :solid sons:
you can trash his undigified childish behavior and poor choices in his life .but to trash him trashes her sons.
My fave line is "at this moment with your behavior, you are choosing to emulate not one of your dads better qualities" stopped my kid dead in his tracks every time...when he was little..gave him something to think about.


Well, if I can't trash him, can I hope that he falls off the major mountain and breaks his stupid neck? I wonder how long the girlfriend would hang around if she had to nurse him back to health. What goes around, comes around and I'm truly sorry for what you're going through GEF.

[WalshFan88]

VA - Good luck.

[sodascouts]

You have all just moved me to tears. Thank you so much for all your support.

With your help, and that from my solid sons, I think I am reaching the decision to go ahead. I have the papers ready. I just need to send them off.

We made a beautiful house together, a view to die for, a conservatory, a hot tub, everything we wanted except a happy relationship in the end. We had two wonderful sons. He suddenly wanted someone who could keep up with his quest for youth, not a sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights.

He's off to do some major mountain climbing with his girlfriend this weekend. I am visiting my sister who needs hip surgery soon.

Keep moving ahead! You can do it!

You know, When you characterize yourself as "sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights" I hear your husband's voice talking. I hope you haven't bought that. You are a lovely person with a kind spirit and a sharp mind. You are loving and generous. That is a lot harder to find than someone who doesn't mind heights, and it's a lot more valuable than low blood pressure. It is his loss.

[sodascouts]

you really cant trash him because half of him is in her :solid sons:
you can trash his undigified childish behavior and poor choices in his life .but to trash him trashes her sons.

I don't buy this mentality. By this logic, if I am raped and bear the child, I am not allowed to "trash" the rapist!

[Brooke]

Keep moving ahead! You can do it!

You know, When you characterize yourself as "sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights" I hear your husband's voice talking. I hope you haven't bought that. You are a lovely person with a kind spirit and a sharp mind. You are loving and generous. That is a lot harder to find than someone who doesn't mind heights, and it's a lot more valuable than low blood pressure. It is his loss.

Exactly! GEF, you are a strong woman and I know you will make it without him. Someday, he will look back with regret and realize what a mistake he has made. Sounds like he's having his midlife crisis and caved and needs to grow up.

[Witchy Woman]

Keep moving ahead! You can do it!

You know, When you characterize yourself as "sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights" I hear your husband's voice talking. I hope you haven't bought that. You are a lovely person with a kind spirit and a sharp mind. You are loving and generous. That is a lot harder to find than someone who doesn't mind heights, and it's a lot more valuable than low blood pressure. It is his loss.


You are certainly not sad or old !! You look like a wonderful, vivacious lady !! NEVER let anyone tell you differently !!

The best revenge you can get is to live well. Treat yourself to a spa day and a new outfit. Go out to a fabulous dinner with a friend. Always be upbeat and positive when speaking to him. If he's not already realizing what he's thrown away, he soon will !! That 23 year old won't hang around too long. Showing him you can live your life and be happy regardless of whether he's in it or not will definitely get his goat !!

[Freypower]

Keep moving ahead! You can do it!

You know, When you characterize yourself as "sad old 56 year old wife with high blood pressure and a fear of heights" I hear your husband's voice talking. I hope you haven't bought that. You are a lovely person with a kind spirit and a sharp mind. You are loving and generous. That is a lot harder to find than someone who doesn't mind heights, and it's a lot more valuable than low blood pressure. It is his loss.

Agreed. Others have commented on this more eloquently than I can, but my thoughts are with you, Kate.

[Outlawman13]

Kate, you can certainly do better than him if he treats you so poorly. You are so strong and an amazing person!!!! No one has the ability to make you feel hurt!!! I'm glad that you are going to send the papers!!!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Well, if I can't trash him, can I hope that he falls off the major mountain and breaks his stupid neck? I wonder how long the girlfriend would hang around if she had to nurse him back to health. What goes around, comes around and I'm truly sorry for what you're going through GEF.
hh i agree with you whole heartly.

but her boys have thier dad in them even though they abviously have more of their mom in them

[glenneaglesfan]

Thank you all so much for your support and wise words.

I am feeling better today after a great morning at the charity shop where I am volunteering. Lots of lovely people to talk to, and by lunchtime we'd taken record sales. It's inspiring. I have applied for a paid job here, but have heard there are over 80 applicants, so won't be too disappointed if I don't get shortlisted.

I have also arranged valuations for the house, and have been starting to look at other properties. There are a few nice places out there. I'm beginning to see life at the end of a long dark tunnel.

[Troubadour]

That is fantastic, Kate! I'm really glad that the volunteering is helping a bit. Fingers crossed for that paid job!

[prayfordaylight]

Glad to hear things are starting to move in the right direction. Good luck with everything!

[Glennsallnighter]

Thank you all so much for your support and wise words.

I am feeling better today after a great morning at the charity shop where I am volunteering. Lots of lovely people to talk to, and by lunchtime we'd taken record sales. It's inspiring. I have applied for a paid job here, but have heard there are over 80 applicants, so won't be too disappointed if I don't get shortlisted.

I have also arranged valuations for the house, and have been starting to look at other properties. There are a few nice places out there. I'm beginning to see life at the end of a long dark tunnel.

You certainly sound more upbeat Kate. I really hope you find somewhere that is different but just as nice as your old home. A friend of mine had to leave her house in a hurry a few years ago after neighbours started giving her serious grief and also hurt her dog. She had loved that house and being of similar age to yourself was very upset at having to leave. But you know, she bought a new property in a seaside village in North Dublin and since she has moved on she hasn't looked back. She is delighted now that she made the decision to go! I hope things turn out like that for you too.

[Prettymaid]

Kate, the new life you build for yourself could make you the happiest you've ever been...you never know! Just stay upbeat and you'll be fine.

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Glad to hear you're feeling more positive GEF!

I'm sitting by the pool at my hotel. Two more nights here and back to VA and to quickly pack the house. Oh, and to see the boys next week!! I put .money down on an apartment for six months. More and more real!!

When I drive up to Pittsburgh for that concert I'll stop in and visit with dad and see how he's doing. Hope I dont break down and cry while there...or go castrate his surgeon. Harsh I know but a fair trade all around I think. Hopefully I'll still be in my peaceful easy feeling from the night before.

[Prettymaid]

Moving right along, huh VA?

[VAisForEagleLovers]

Well, moving anyway! Not sure about right along! Things have been moving fast but I'm afraid of how long it'll take to pack everything and arrange for a mover and even finding a mover who can do it so quickly.

[Tiffanny Twisted]

VA
" let go and let god" and it will all work out. turn it over to him and he will provide all you need.
I have enough faith and prayer to cover you when you dont have enough.

Prayers still for dad.'

so, you took the offer??
moving into an appt till you can find a house is a good choice.
packing is great...good time to get rid of things that you really dont need,

I will always try and find the positve ness in any sitruation ..
:thumbsup:

[sodascouts]

Kate, I'm so glad to hear you're feeling better. That's the spirit!

VA, I hope everything goes well with your move and your dad.

[Outlawman13]

Kate, I'm so glad that everything is going so well for you now!!

VA, I hope all goes well with your move

[Grey Sadler]

:hug: and good thoughts for everybody!!

Our region got a walloping bunch of storms that aren't quite over...lots of flooding, ugh!!

...and Saturday Night (of all nights, LOL), I twisted my knee again (I blame my pretty new cork sandals!), so it's wrapped up...haven't been able to go to the gym because of it, and now getting a little snuffly...don't need a pre-inservice sinus infection for the 3rd straight summer, ack!!

[Outlawman13]

I'm so sorry about that Amy!!! I sure hope it heals fast so you can do your exercises on it again!!! Sinus infection too? Hugs for you and prayers:hug:

[sodascouts]

Ugh, GS! Hope things get better!

[Tiffanny Twisted]

Amy feel better:)

[Houston Baby]

GEF - keep up the positive outlook! You sound like you will be fine.

Troub - good luck with the job search - as GA said, any school would be lucky to have you!

VA - good luck with the move and let us know how your dad is doing.

GS - "Take it easy" and feel better!!!

:grouphug:

[Troubadour]

Feel better, GS!

I just had a call back to say that I didn't get the teaching job I went for this morning. They were incredibly complimentary and literally couldn't offer any advice - there were no negatives, I was just pipped to the post by a slightly stronger/more experienced candidate on the day. It is a bit galling because I feel like it's the same old story at each interview, but I also know that I couldn't have done any more and that it's just the way the job market is at the moment. I'm sure there is a role out there with my name on it... On the plus side, I actually enjoyed teaching the observed lesson this morning and am really pleased with the feedback I have had from it. As I said, no negatives, just one of those things. The agency I am signed up with is putting me forward for another role in a Year 1 class in a tougher area (the school was in special measures, but is working hard to improve.) They want someone who will get stuck in and help the school to raise standards. It will be tough, but then I think any school would be. We shall see how it goes if they like my CV and I get the chance to visit the school/go for interview...

[TimothyBFan]

Sorry to hear that one didn't work out, Lou. Keep that positive attitude you have about it all, and something is sure to come along and hopefully, it will be the perfect one just made for you.

[Glennsallnighter]

Lou! :hug: I'm so sorry you didn't get the job after all the effort you put into it. It is soul destroying when this happens. But so good that everything went well. You have been 'runner up' a few times now and hopefully you will make it that step further the next time. I know how dedicated you are and how lucky the school that chooses you will be to get such a dedicated staff member.

Really hope the next one comes through for you.

[Prettymaid]

Troub, I knew you'd have the right attitude, and you do! Keep your chin up knowing the right job awaits you.

GS, at least you looked good in your pretty sandals when you twisted your knee! Hope you feel better soon.